Greetings - Sunday - November 15th., 2009
I am available today until 2pm., pacific & then again
this evening between 7pm & 10pm., pacific.
What does an 'M&M' do? It's melts in your mouth, not in your hand! There is a lot about that statement of what an "M&M" does and how it parallels the feminine nature. The feminine nature is responsive. The masculine nature is active.  The M&M responds to the 'heat' of your mouth allowing it to melt in your mouth, not in your hand. Of course if you hold it clinched in the palm of your hand, tightly and long enough, yeah, of course it will eventually melt. But if you put an M&M in your mouth, resting it on your tongue, just holding it there, it won't take long to melt due to the heat & chemistry of your mouth. Just sitting there on your tongue, mouth closed, and it will simply and completely 'melt' in only a few minutes, like 2.5 to 3 minutes to be exact. 

What happens during a 'KISS' shared between two people? If you are someone who can say that YOU MELT, during 'the kiss' then you are also the type of person who can allow herself to 'let go' and give someone else the control. More often times than not, when kissing someone whom you enjoy even a subtle chemistry with, if you allow a 'kiss' to take place, you will find that by relaxing and just letting go and letting 'it' happen, that the kiss will actually allow your mouths to melt into each other. Naturally, if you are female, you will 'MELT' into 'him', allowing yourself to completely 'let go' generating his male tendency to come forward. It's a passive & aggressive, male/female dynamic that will automatically ignite. You will find that the natural course of events, following 'the kiss' will suddenly occur. It is a natural chain reaction.  'He' will aggressively come toward you...repeatedly; due to your responsive, submissive nature.

I am directing this message more toward heterosexual relationships due to the feminine/masculine energy that is present by virtue of & in experiencing the 'kiss'. I am not suggesting that same sex relationships do or don't experience similar or same. I am simply addressing the energy dynamic of feminine/masculine responsive & active energy based on gender specific natural hormones, & the chemistry thereof, and how in allowing that energy dynamic to naturally occur, via the kiss. In observation the female/male dynamic creates a force without pushing or pulling, that will suddenly be set into motion, leading to spontaneous reactions.

And we often wonder why 'just one kiss' (the wrong OK or right, KISS, depending on what you're going after) kiss can lead to pregnancy? It's not a wonder to me, how that can occur.

It's how GOD designed & created us, and why we must maintain a moral code to live by. Just because it's 2009 doesn't mean that suddenly a woman must take control or that a man must sit back and wait. The kiss, simply means this... that when we behave according to our divine nature (don't confuse divine nature with sexual expression or physical desires) that GOD will take care of the rest. Trust? Yes. Obedience? Yes. We all know what is morally correct and what is not. Even if some of you want to argue this with me, you and I both know full well that It is not a wise idea nor is it morally correct to jump in the sac with someone on the first date-----objectivity is lost as is the divine natural progression. At that point, when that happens, the relationship suddenly becomes plagued by being predicated on 'the physical connection via sex'.  However, on the first date, it is ok to experience a 'first kiss' that allows nature to 'kick in', both in the female and male, creating his active aggressive nature to pursue, and her naturally submissive nature to respond, to his pursuit of her.

 It's time to experience the 'KISS'! Allow yourself to melt in his mouth and not in his hands, or by the stroke of his 'hands'...at least not initially!

 Enjoy your day!

Blessings,
Daija ext 32452