Friday, October 12, 2007 8:34 AM
ASTRODaija
Is your Man Cheating?
Are you involved with a cheating man? Below are the top 10 signs of a cheating man. The Clue for You is to watch for 'CHANGES' in your man's Behavior.
The
cheating man can only hide his cheating ways for so long before he gets
caught. The longer a man cheats, the higher probability he will get
caught. In this busy day and age, it is difficult to carry on more than
one relationship. However, with inventions like the internet,
accessibility to willing partners has become easier than ever. There
are various ways of how to tell if your man is cheating. Below is a list of the top 10 signs of a cheating man. How can you know if your man is
cheating? If your man exhibits any of the below signs ladies, it's definitely time to take
a closer look.
1. He Spends less time with you. The cheating man must use the excuse of
working long hours, extra meetings and dinners or other unexplained
functions so he will have time with his “other” woman.
2. He Isn’t as affectionate towards you as he once was. Your sex life is almost
non-existent because of his other commitments. He doesn’t want to
cuddle, watch movies, hold hands or do many of the touchy things he
used to.
3. He changes or updates his physical appearance. A cheating man usually
starts buying new clothes, update his hair style or begin working out
because he desires to be attractive to the other woman in his life
now, besides you.
4. He will often times buy a new Car or you will notice specific 'car' changes. The passenger seat in the car has been moved or
there is an unknown hair on the car seat. Perhaps the radio station is
on an irregular or new station because that’s what she likes.
5. The Cheating man is often times irritable. He may be short-tempered because of the guilty
feelings as a result of the infidelity. Things that usually did not
bother him will suddenly become bothersome.
6. The cheating man may smell different. He may smell of perfume, smoke or alcohol,
especially if he hasn’t had time to change from meeting up with her prior to coming home.
7. He may have abrupt disposition, demeanor, & behavior changes. The cheating man frequently becomes defensive
when questioned about his whereabouts. He may turn it around to accuse
you of being insecure, possessive or snoopy.
He becomes the great Spin-doctor in arguments to project and make you the problem, rather than his 'cheating'!
8. The cheating man will change his Cell phone usage. The cheating man can not leave his telephone
turned on when with you because his other woman may phone him. He may
leave the room to have a conversation or say strange things
after he picks up a message from his lover. Watch for calls in the
middle of the night, or at odd times. If you have access to his cell phone bill, check it
closely. Look for repeated unknown numbers, times and durations.
9. The Cheating man will have Computer usage changes. Your cheating man will often times use his personal or work computer to
seek out partners to meet and communicate with. If your man is on his computer
for long periods of time at night and he closes the door so you won’t
see him, he may be communicating or chatting with his love interest.
10. The Cheating man will have Changes in spending habits. You will be able to tell if your man is
cheating if he is suddenly always broke. He’s broke because he is
spending all of his money on the other woman. Watch as to whether he is
paying with cash and making more frequent ATM withdrawals to cover his
paper trail. Check any receipts, bill’s or stubs that you may have
access to.
Once you have questioned your man, and you have determined whether or not he is cheating, make sure you have a
plan of action that you will take after you talk with him. You need to
decide whether it’s time for you to move on or whether this
relationship may be worth a second chance.~