Greetings - Saturday - March 21st., 2009

An intellectually romantic weekend means "Love Talk" for couples everywhere. A charming approach to speaking your heart, with a genuine sincerity will woo your certain someone, allowing romantic stimulation, & your relationship launches.

We are all seeking the same thing--- Love. But not just any old kind of love. But a love that will reawaken our hearts, build trust and soften, perhaps, even heal the wounds from the past. It's time now to allow someone to love you. And to trust that love you receive by making sure you are allowing this person into your life for the right reasons. It's time to be open in your communications.

When two people meet & greet and decide to begin communication, whether in an online dating venue, or in a social or professional or academic situation----if there is a romantic "SPARK", and mutually so, then ultimately whether the relationship 'launches' or not, depends on the subsequent communication. Period!

Bottom line, folks, it is the mutually shared communication, and shared CORE PERSONALITY values that will ultimately,  bond the two people, allowing trust, loyalty and a wonderful opportunity for a real loving relationship to occur, as well as real authentic healing to take place.

But how do you I do this----is the common question I am asked. One way, and one way only, LET GO OF FEAR, and speak your TRUTH. Replace FEAR in your vocabulary, replacing it with FAITH, and OPEN UP, and Speak your truth, regardless of what you believe 's/he' will do with that truth. Because if you are fearful of scaring someone with your truth, (or core values) fearing that they will run away by you sharing with them how you think, or what you believe, or what it is that you truly desire for yourself, REGARDLESS of what that is----then you are merely sabotaging your potential relationship, delaying the inevitable, choosing the temporary fix of the idea of temporary romance, vs. allowing yourself to enjoy the real relationship that could develop & occur. In other words, get out of your own way.

Please recognize that you can only hide behind that veneer---or what is true and right for you, for so long. Therefore, you are simply delaying the inevitable, because eventually when your boyfriend or girlfriend learns what truly is YOU at the core level, (whether that is a month, 6 months, or a year down the road) they will then question who you are, and that in and of itself 'SPELLS RELATIONAL DESTRUCTION' ---- via the onset of deceptive communication or omission of communication.

Open up and be visible to the man or woman whom you meet, Communicate with them openly and honestly, regarding YOUR TRUE CORE VALUES. This will ultimately change your destiny in relationships, and you will eventually meet the man/woman who is 'right and aligned or 'equally yoked' with YOU.

I am on today, Saturday, between 9am & 3pm., pacific, ONLY.
No Late Evening Hours!!
 
Enjoy your day and TALK!!