HOW TO GET AND KEEP A MAN...
From the book "why men love bitches"...
MEN NEED A MENTAL CHALLENGE...
ANYTHING A PERSON CHASES RUNS AWAY...
DONT BE AVAILABLE ALL THE TIME...
A MAN WILL ALWAYS WANT WHAT HE CANT HAVE...
SHE DOESNT WANT ANYONE WHO DOESNT WANT HER...
IGNORE HIM AND HE IS INTRIGUED...
SHE IS NICE BUT DISTANT...
SHE DOESNT PURSUE HIM...
SHE IS MYSTERIOUS...
SHE ISNT RESENTFUL IF HE IS UNAVAILABLE...
MEN LOVE THE THRILL OF THE CHASE...
WHEN A MAN WANTS SOMETHING HE WILL GO AFTER IT...
IF HE DOESNT SUCCEED RIGHT AWAY HE WILL CRAVE IT...
IF HE IS LOSING HE WILL FIGHT EVEN HARDER...
YOU ALWAYS WANT WHAT YOU CANT HAVE...
SINCE HE NEVER QUITE HAS HER HE NEVER STOPS PURSUING HER...
CONSTANT MOTHERING WILL EVENTUALLY TURN A MAN OFF...
DO NOT CHECK UP ON HIM, OR EXPECT HIM TO SPEND ALL HIS TIME WITH YOU...
NEVER GIVE THE APPEARANCE YOU ARE CLOSING IN ON HIM...
IF YOU SMOTHER HE WILL GO INTO DEFENSE MODE AND LOOK TO ESCAPE...
WHEN YOU TREAT TIME TOGETHER AS SOMETHING HE HAS TO DO YOU'VE MADE IT INTO A CHORE, MAKE IT FUN TO BE WITH YOU...
WHENEVER A WOMAN REQUIRES TOO MANY THINGS FROM A MAN HE WILL RESENT IT, LET HIM GIVE FREELY...
MEN ARE HUNTERS...
DONT COMPLAIN THAT HE DOESNT TAKE YOU OUT ENOUGH...
WHEN YOU APPEAR SOFTER AND FEMININE YOU APPEAL TO HIS INSTINCT TO PROTECT, BUT IF AGGRESSIVE HIS INSTINCT IS COMPETE...
DONT CRITICIZE OR NAG, INSTEAD MANEUVER...
MEN DONT RESPOND TO WORDS THEY RESPOND TO NO CONTACT...
KEEP PHONE CALLS SHORT AND SWEET...
NEVER BE AROUND A PERSON WHO HAS SHOWN YOU HE IS A HURTFUL PERSON...
NEVER CANCEL A DATE ETC. TO BE WITH HIM...
CONSINTRATE ON YOU AND TAKING CARE OF YOUR SELF AND YOUR NEEDS, THEN ON HIS...
DONT GIVE HIM ALL YOUR TIME...
WHEN A MAN TREATS A WOMAN WITH DISRESPECT AND SHE TAKES IT, HE LOSES RESPECT FOR HER...
WHEN A MAN FEELS YOU ARE TRYING TO HARD THE CHALLENGE IS OVER...
DONT CALL HIM RIGHT BACK WHEN HE ASKS...
TREAT HIM LIKE A FRIEND...
TRY SOMETHING NEW, DONT SHOW YOUR FEELINGS FOR A WHILE...
A SLIGHTLY ALOOF DEMEANER CAN OFTEN RENEW HIS RESPECT...
NEVER LET A GUY KNOW YOU ARE SITTING HOME WAITING FOR HIM...
WHEN A WOMAN CHASES A MAN IT TURNS HIM OFF...
DON'T ALWAYS KISS HIS ASS AND IT WILL KEEP HIM ON HIS TOES...
SHOW YOU WONT ACCEPT MISTREATMENT THEN YOU WILL KEEP HIS RESPECT...
DONT GIVE A REWARD FOR BAD BEHAVIOR...
WHEN A WOMAN IS WILLING TO BEND OVER BACKWARDS IT INVITES MISTREATMENT...
ANYTIME A WOMAN COMPETES WITH ANOTHER WOMAN SHE DEMEANS HERSELF...
TALKING ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP TOO MUCH CAN TAKE AWAY THE MYSTERY...
A LITTLE DISTANCE AND SELF CONTROL MAKES HIM NERVOUS HE IS LOSING YOU...
HE SEE'S AN EMOTIONAL WOMAN AS A PUSHOVER...
THE MOST ATTRATIVE QUALITY OF ALL IS DIGNITY...
NEVER LET HIM SEE YOU SWEAT WHAT HE IS DOING...