Which are you? Be honest, which are you?
Why call for advice and don't apply it? How do you know what advice to listen to and who? There are a lot of advisors here to choose from. I feel that the best way to take advice is maybe choose at least three but no more than five advisors. Make it an odd number. And after each call to an advisor, take a few minutes, write that advisor's name down, and also ask yourself these questions. How did the advisor make you feel? What did you feel when the advisor told you the information? Did you feel the information was intouch with your gut feelings? Did you feel afraid, or relieved? Did the advice make sense to you? What did the advisor really say? What was the deeper meaning? How did calling this advisor benefit you? What should you do about your situation after talking to the advisor and after comparing it to your own gut feeling?
Once you can answer these questions, then you are not wasting your money or time. You are actually helping yourself instead of hurting yourself. And you want to limit how many advisors you call in a short period of time, so that you won't confuse yourself. The advisors will still be here, there is no need to rush and call 30 advisors in the same day. You need to take the time to process the information given and think about it. Now, there's nothing wrong with getting advice, just make sure you are not wasting your time and money. Because if you're getting information and you're not applying it in a way that is helping you, then what's the point of doing it. These readings should help make you a better person over time, not hurt you and make you feel in fear. And remember, every advisor is different. We all have our own methods that we read. And remember, different advisors connect differently to different people. There may be some advisors who can deal with your situation better than others. That doesn't mean that they are bad advisors or not gifted. This is why the universe has put different gifts into different people. There is not one single gifted person on this planet that can read EVERY single person. We each have something special to bring to the table and you have to trust your own gut feeling to guide you to the right advisor. This is why I suggest a minimum of three but no more than five in a short period of time. Because sometimes, an advisor can speak information that you may not want to hear or be willing to accept. But remember, ask yourself some of those questions that I stated earlier in the blog and this will help you process the information.
In other words, make getting advice a positive and meaningful experience that empowers you. Now I will end by posing this question. Which are you? The person that takes the time to process and apply advice or the person who is wasting time by collecting information and doing nothing with it?
Ó Copyright 2007 by Advisor Ryan