Are All the Good Ones Gone?
I once read an article stating that women between the ages of 35 to 50 had as much chance of finding a partner as an 90 year old did, due to the fact that single women outnumber single men considerably.
What does such a statistic mean? Nothing. Unless of course you are interested in pairing up every single female with every single male. All such statistics do is cement the erroneous idea that it’s about numbers. It isn’t – it’s about attitude.
Most likely the demographics are different where you live, but chances are the mindset will be the same – there just aren’t enough suitable singles around.
I meet this resistance time and time again from clients looking for a little romance in their life or the perfect partner; that everyone is either married, unsuitable or has too much baggage.
I don’t believe that to be so. The fact is, it often comes out of the mouth of an eligible, suitable and available single. What I do believe, however, is that such mindsets easily become a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you believe good potential partners are scarce, they will be.
Thing is, all anyone needs to find is one person. Instead of looking out for that one elusive person and having a scarcity mentality, practice living life on track instead. Go about your life, confident in the fact that it’s only a matter of time before that one person crosses your busy, abundant path. What we choose to focus and put our energy into obviously has a much higher chance of becoming a reality.
That mindset serves a far more worthwhile purpose. It opens doors, attracts positive like-minded people toward you, and means that life is fun and full in the meantime.
That’s far more likely to catch the attention of an eligible, suitable partner. And you only need to catch the eye of one!
Melody “Lil Mel”
Melody "Lil Mel" McGowan
Life Coach, Author, & Professional Advisor
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