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  • About Me: A published author, life coach, certified spiritual advisor, & practicing Clairvoyant, Claricognizant, and Tarot Reader. Specialize in love & relationship. Believe laughter is the best medicine. Treat others with respect & honesty and expect the same.

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Surviving Disappointment...

Disappointment is inevitable--life can never consistenly live up to our expectations.  Although not a pleasant task, sometimes my readings reveal a different outcome that a client desires.  There are times when the one you love doesn't love you back.  Times when a seemingly loving spouse chooses another and leaves the marriage.  Let's be realistic...life doesn't always turn out the way we imagine it will.  It's up to you to decide how to get through those dark times. 

The greatest disappointments occur when others disappoint or hurt us.  Sometimes they know exactly what they are doing and don't care.  While other times, they're only doing the best they know how to do with the tools that they have. They ultimate success, happiness, and joy in our lives should not depend on others--it depends on our relationship with God, (Higher Power, the Creator, Goddess...whatever feels comfortable to you.)   Naturally, we depend on people for certain things, and it is painful when they let us down.  If we are in a good place spiritually, emotionally, and comfort with ourselves, we are more equipped with surviving disappointments.  Of course, we will still feel the pain--but our recovery time is lessen!  Keep in mind that sometimes God allows disappointments to happen in order to bless you in some way! 

If you are experiencing a disappointment and having trouble coping with the situation or your emotions, I offer my assistance...

I will be signed in for calls tonight from 6 p.m. - 11 p.m.  CST w/short breaks.  If I am not signed in promptly at the scheduled time or on a break, please use the CallBack feature to ensure we connect.  As always, if you have never spoken with me before, send me an email letting me know and I will send you some minutes toward your first call.  Additionally, if you are a regular caller and need some 'just in case' minutes to offset the cost of your call, let me know!  

I look forward to helping...

Melody "Lil Mel"  

Published Thursday, August 16, 2007 5:32 PM by Advisor Lil Mel
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# re: Surviving Disappointment... @ Thursday, August 16, 2007 7:14 PM

Melody:

Your blogs are great.  You are such a positive force here on Keen.  I enjoy reading these every day.  Thanks!

Kelly

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# re: Surviving Disappointment... @ Thursday, August 16, 2007 7:55 PM

Thank you!  Your comment is another bright spot in my day!  

May you continue to be blessed!

Advisor Lil Mel

# re: Surviving Disappointment... @ Friday, August 17, 2007 2:57 AM

Hi Melody, thanks for your great (and timely) thoughts.As Im in the process of getting over my marriage-breakup im learning that happiness does not depend on others, i have to depend on God! your blog has just reminded me to trust that He has bigger and better things ahead for me and mine! thank you for this boost! you are a blessing in this world and i wish you love, blessings, health, happiness fun and whatever you wish for!

Laura

# re: Surviving Disappointment... @ Friday, August 17, 2007 7:33 AM

Laura,

Thanks for stopping by and commenting.  Sorry that you are having to experience the pain & sorrow of such a loss.  Any loss is difficult, but know that you can survive and come out a stronger person.  

Although it may not seem like it at the moment, but as you continue on this path and continue asking for guidance with your choices--in a few years your entire life will have undergone a major transformation!   You will look back at your current situation and shake your head, wonder how you manage to get through it, and smile!  

Trust me on this one!  It will get better than it is at the moment! :)

Blessings to you!

Melody "Lil Mel"

Advisor Lil Mel

# re: Surviving Disappointment... @ Friday, August 17, 2007 12:40 PM

thanks a million. i do believe things will get better and will try to enjoy each moment on the way. your blog is fab, inspired.

laura

# re: Surviving Disappointment... @ Thursday, May 29, 2008 11:16 AM

Disappointment is a hard reality in life.  Even harder when you so desperately just want to be happy and satisfied.  Some of us have to learn to depend on God so we then can depend on ourselves.  And what if everyone around you aren't these people who fill you with joy and happiness that you so desire???  It's disappointing!  But thats the trick....learning that this is where you start this lesson of trusting God and through time he will makes things right for YOU..and YOUR life.  Because when you become disappointed you start looking at other people who are better off, luckier, prettier, in committed & happy marriage and you just give up...get depressed, hopeless.  It's such a learning & spiritual experience working thru those dark times.  Those times of aloneness and emotional fragility.  But whether you realize it or not...you ARE getting through them.  Your perspective and choice to function more positively is up to you.  Just do the best you can.  Lord, knows I have my negative days to deal with.  I wish you patience and tolerance.
God Bless!

Mary

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