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This one's for Schelly16...
This blog is dedicated to Schelly16...and those who are experiencing 
Empty Nest Syndrome (for the first time).  Yes, life goes on after our 
children move out and we are left with an empty nest...here's my take 
on the youngsters moving out...
 
 

Re-feathering My Empty Nest

 

There she goes, down the road;

my youngest child is leaving home,

off to college, pursuing her dreams;

making a life of her own.

Twenty plus years spent being a mom;

left to become a victim of the empty nest syndrome.

 

Never the one for dramatics,

I watch her leave with only a slight tear in my eye.

I love being a mom, I love my children;

For without them, I never would have known the depth

of feelings and love that I have within me.

Without them, I would have never experienced

the pride I feel as I watched them grow.

Without them, my life would have been boring.

 

Shaking my head, smiling to myself,

I let out a long sigh—

 

No time for sadness or tears;

Today is the day that I am set free!

Gone are the large phone bills,

I shall embrace the lower water bills—

Late fees at the video store will a memory be!

Less messes to clean, easier daily routines,

One less bed to be made, plenty of towels for me,

a bottle of shampoo will last months.

I will be sole owner of the remote.

An endless roll of toilet paper, glory be!

No more hiding my best make-up;

The car radio stations are all mine!

 

Looking in the mirror, I no longer see

The carefree young girl from twenty-plus years ago;

Where did she go? Does she still exist?

Time to rediscover myself, time to explore the possibilities;

time to re-feather my empty nest.

 

Perhaps I will travel; Chicago, New York, Castles of Ireland—

Become an author; write poetry, a novel, a screenplay. 

Entertain a gentleman friend or two; find love again, or just a little fun!

Perhaps all that and more—oh, the possibilities I see!

 

But for this moment—

 I look over at the cats with a wicked grin;

Grab my hairbrush as my microphone,

pop in my favorite CD, crank ‘er up;

Hip-hopping to Rod Stewart’s “Do Ya’ Think I’m Sexy?”

Clad in only my sock-feet and floppy hat!

Oh yeah, folks, she’s back!

 

 
Excerpt from Ramblings from the Heart
By Melody McGowan (Me!)
Copyrighted 2006

Published Thursday, August 23, 2007 4:15 PM by Advisor Lil Mel

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# re: This one's for Schelly16... @ Thursday, August 23, 2007 4:53 PM

LOL!  I love it!  And you certainly do have a way of putting things into perspective!  Thank you!

schelly16

# re: This one's for Schelly16... @ Thursday, August 23, 2007 6:55 PM

Really beautiful and very timely for I am feeling abandoned also by my daughter!
Willow

Willow07

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