12/11/06 -12-11-07 in five minutes your whole life can change!
Tommorrow it will be 1 year since my greatest love no longer walks the Earth. I am greatful for many things the time with him is my life's most priceless treasure. I would do it again knowing the outcome. There are connections in this life so unmistakeably meant to be. People throw the word "soulmate" around with such ease. Soulmate means the other person would literally die to save you. A rare pure love. You will not need to ask anyone else if someone is your soulmate because you BOTH will just know.
Bryan had a rare and pure heart it often pained him that others were not as generous and loving toward him as he was to them. He had no outlet to shower his selfless kindness on that gave back. Childrens charites are a very rewarding cause because one simple gesture can redirect an entire future. If he had only stayed to have a child of his own. Or found a way to channel all the need to devote himself to others he wouldn't have fallen to depression so easily.
If you suffered loss this year give to other's or charities in your loved one's name. There are literally several thousand children in foster care in any given community. Be a secret Santa you can find out a childs first name and their age then go shop for them. It is more personal than toys for tots. It's lots of fun to know you are creating smiles Christmas morning. I sponsored two children this year and it felt terrific.