Making changes can be rough.....
Making changes in your life can be a rough prospect to say the very least. But, sometimes it needs to be done. Clean out the cobwebs, get rid of people in your life that aren't making your life better that are only dragging you down and depressing you and revamp how you do things. Start reassessing how it is that you operate your life and see if it's in a manner that you are proud of or are you just living life and not really enjoying it? These are things that you need to ask yourself on a 6 month basis. Really think about that friend that always calls you and dumps their problems on you but never reciprocates the favor. Try to really stop and think and ask yourself "IS this person making my life any better or just dragging me down with them?" If the answer is they are making your life better then do keep them in your life. But, if the answer is that they are dragging you down and always are in the same ole mess time and time again then maybe it's time to either talk to this person and tell them they need to make changes or just back away from them and slowly weed them out.
I know this sounds extreme but it's best to have positive energy flow into your life by making changes, and they don't have to be huge ones, then it is to always have to have the feeling of energy vampires sucking the life out of you all the time. That feeling that your always tired and never have time for yourself after you talk to someone that is always in trouble. If you don't want to completely get rid of them out of your life then just limit contact so that you can prosper and have positive things flowing into your life like you deserve. For instance, if the relationship your in with your partner isn't working ask yourself why it isn't, then set a time to sit and talk to the other person about it and see if he/she feels the same and what you can do to change it to feel like your actually in a functional relationship.
Changes can be as small as meditating and bringing positive energy into your life so that you can feel better about who you are and what you are headed towards in life. Remember to always try to look for the good in everyone so that your not always focused on the negative parts of life. Life is too short to sit and worry about every little thing. Learn to live, love and laugh!
Blessings,
AmethystMoon