Dead-End Relationships-How Do You Tell?
Ever been in a dating situation that you question if you're wasting your time? How do you know? Here's a list of
WARNING SIGNS IN DATING that are
clear warnings the man is not ready for a real relationship! (*NOTE* This list or parts of it may also apply to MEN as well as WOMEN!*)
He tells you they just want to be 'friends' (listen to them-they MEAN it*).
He talks about an ex-girlfriend or ex-wife then apologizes profusely.
He doesn't listen or seems vague or seem distracted on a date.
He avoids personal questions and information on his own friends/family.
He suddenly talks about 'love or marriage' too fast-after 2-3 dates.
He says he loves kids-THEN you discover he owes child support to more than one woman.
He if questioned about his past- avoids any questions and/or change topics
He is always too busy to make 'plans'(has to work all the 'time'/always an excuse*).
He suddenly stops calling-or just disappears after 1 or 2 dates.
He conveniently forgot his wallet-OR suddenly he needs cash promising to pay it back.
He always excuses his drinking or drug use with "it never hurts"-I can handle it!"
He when asked about HIV/STDS-he avoids the issues-or either state they're not 'sick'.
He uses verbal attacks/loses his temper-but swears it will never happen again.
He avoids meeting your friends or family-always have an excuse or 'not ready'.
He doesn't want you to have and talk to friends/family-and becomes a control freak.
He can only seem to stop by on certain days/times-usually for a quickie to rush off.
He won't discuss the future of your relationship-but swears his 'eternal love forever'.
He told you he 'closed his account' on the dateline-but you catch him sitting on it.
He when on the cellphone/computer-hangs up, shuts off and says it's just a old friend.
He when in arguing-tries to make you feel responsible or bad-never accepting blame.
He 'accidentally' calls you by another name anytime-but especially when making love.
WELL I NEVER!
NEVER date a man who refuses to tell you personal info upfront.
NEVER date a man who doesn't take pride in his appearance of himself or property.
NEVER date a man who has tons excuses for not calling or pulls a 'no-show'.
NEVER date a man who keeps saying you remind him of his 'ex'.
NEVER date a man who spends more time with his friends than he does with you.
NEVER date a man who can't seem to keep a job-but he blames it on everyone else.
NEVER date a man who refuses to use a condom-and says they are 'safe'.
NEVER date a man who refuses or puts off 'meeting your kids' or your family.
NEVER date a man you think you will 'change'-you'll fooling yourself.
NEVER date a man to get 'even' with another-not fair to you or the 'new guy'.