What REAL Men Say They Want From A Woman!
I took an anonymous survey from a few gentlemen that I do not know about what men WANT or look for when seeking a relationship? You WILL learn something here-and their answers just may surprise you!
Here's a list of the COMMENTS made by men who are seeking a mate or a relationship and the qualities they look for in a woman:
"We have to have something in common. I want her to be attractive-but not so much in looks-as in what makes her 'shine'-her personality-how she treats others. I want her to become my best friend. I want us to share doing things together-even sitting down with me to watch football and show some interest in what "I" enjoy doing. That way I can truly want to share her interests-even shopping when I don't care to-but I do it because she enjoys it AND shares time with things that excite me! It's the little things-going for a drive in the country-just talking-being not only my lover-but my forever friend for life.'
"I want to find a decent mature female. She's got to have a good sense of humor-loves to laugh. I am not into games-don't have time for them-women can give off mixed signals at times. That's what I mean by 'games'-say what you mean and mean what you say! Be honest and direct-don't make me 'guess' what you want or feel. I want a lady who is honest and doesn't lie, cheat or steal-but has some values about herself and what is important in life. I watch how women treat others-and look for a woman who doesn't want to abuse me or mistreat others in her words or actions."
"I look for sincerity, honesty and true affection from a female-not meaning sex, even though that yes-but a woman who knows how to show REAL affection in how she treats me-the little things do still matter. Holding my hand when we're together, being affectionate towards me even when I don't deserve it-that's a REAL woman! I want to find a partner with a good sense of humor, who is very laid back-at ease with herself with or without 'makeup'. A woman just who really enjoys life and doesn't play games with me or others or is into BS! A woman who isn't afraid to say what she means and means what she SAYS!"
"I would love to find a woman who is positive, fun loving. It's not about race or age anymore which is what 'most' women think! It's about someone who is full of LIFE-meaning they enjoy the 'little things'-and show appreciation to me and others. It's not what she looks like-its about who she IS-personality is what men do look at when seeking a real mate!"
"I'd like to find 'chemistry' with a woman-meaning for me it's NOT about 'looks'-but feeling comfortable with a woman-someone who is uninhibited-isn't afraid to show me that side of herself. A woman who knows what they want in life and go after it and GET it! I like that in a woman-spunk, fire-spirit! I find sweetness, kindness and someone with a good heart and intelligence SEXY! A woman who has something going for herself-and is happy with herself. That old saying "behind every good man is a good woman"? Hey is it true? Yes-and I'm over 50! It is true-but women don't realize how much!"
"I'm seeking a female who is not into arguing all the time, nagging and complaining about stuff and wants to fight. I am looking for a woman who is at peace with herself, confident and is happy. A woman who can be herself with me for gentle lovemaking to all-out wild sex without inhibition! Guess the most important qualities would be she can become my friend and lover offering real companionship."
"I am looking for a woman without 'drama'. Drama meaning she wants a real man-and one not willing to be in 2nd place. I don't want to be in second place or have to deal with her issues with another man! A real woman who wants only me at the end of the day when I come home tired and need her affection and gentle words. When all is said and done that is what counts to me. A real woman who is not materialistic-judging me on income or feeling life is 'all about money'-or what I can offer her with material things. I need some solid conversations-quality time-not spent with a woman who is loud or always wanting to fight. I know some women and men both play games-but that's not what most men are about."
"I'm not looking for a player-and yes some women are 'players'-into all kinds of games. I'm a one woman man-and despise women who play one man against another man-to make them jealous or whatever? A real woman that's secure with herself isn't into all that-trying to cause jealousy in her man. It usually backfires-and most men can sense when they're getting played and eventually get fed up-and just walk away. Honesty and being real with me is all I want."
"I'm seeking a woman who has dealt with any past issues-someone who has gotten over their ex-boyfriend or spouse. It has to be about total honesty upfront! Some women don't even realize they still have lingering emotions from a bad relationship-and just jump into another. Can a men sense that? You better believe a man can sense when a woman still has another person in her heart-she doesn't have to say it. A man just 'knows'!"
"I'm seeking a a woman who is someone that is real, sensitive and playful. Women think it's 'all about sex' for us men-that is a PART of it-but it's also about touching, hugging, caressing and kisses-it IS the foreplay that really intensifies the sex desire men and women both seek to enjoy to the fullest. I want a female who will love me for who I am, someone I would like to share my life with. I want a woman who has some sort of spiritual values also-this is what keeps a relationship stable through the good and the bad-and sustains it."
Interesting answers from REAL men here-ranging in ages 20-50+! I did have fun doing this and also learned a lot about what men REALLY want and hope you did too!
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