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Being Attached to Hows and Whens

   Lately, I have had an experience that I want to share with you.  I get a lot of calls from many of you asking the when and how of the outcome.  As a reader, I have discovered it is not so much about how or when but that is going to happen.  Yes it is going to happen! 

   The Universe has a funny way of doing things.  All I know is that as a reader I can see the outcome of let us say you landing this job.  You may ask me how are you going to hear about the job...I tell you to look everywhere and anywhere for your desired job is on its way to you!  You may want to know all the dirty details in which I can not give you answers to...I just can see you are going to get that job you truly deserve and desire. 

    So, let the Remember, being attached to just the outcome is enough for it to manifest.  The hows, whys, and whens sometimes delays your desired results. 

   Let the Universe handle the details!  You have enough to worry about!  Let it go and have faith that it is on its way!  Just be open to any and all possibilities! 

   

Published Wednesday, April 02, 2008 9:02 AM by Amysinsights11

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# re: Being Attached to Hows and Whens

Wednesday, April 02, 2008 6:25 AM by DruidsGlenTarot
Interesting post and thanks for sharing it.
It is my own personal belief that being attached to any aspect of a prediction can slow it not to mention prevent it from happening, it would appear that there is a direct correlation to desiring something too much and it always being out of reach. In other words we never get what we want when the fear of us not having it is more than or equal to the level of desire for that person or situation.
Makes no sense but it just works that way :-)
Joan

# re: Being Attached to Hows and Whens

Wednesday, April 02, 2008 6:43 AM by DruidsGlenTarot
I forgot to mention that in my humble opinion the universe has a great sense of humor and if you just let it go and let God, you could not even imagine how creatively and humorously things can come to fruition.
Joan

# re: Being Attached to Hows and Whens

Wednesday, April 02, 2008 6:46 AM by Coach Terri
I would like to know how to detach from something.  That always seems impossible to me.

# re: Being Attached to Hows and Whens

Wednesday, April 02, 2008 6:55 AM by Amysinsights11
Dear Joan:

Thank you for your thoughts and insights.  It always helps when you gain a different perspective on this subject.

Yes, I do believe the Universe has a funny way of being things first into our consciousness and then into the physical realm.

Blessings be with you on this day and always.

Love, light, and blessings,

Amy

# re: Being Attached to Hows and Whens

Wednesday, April 02, 2008 6:56 AM by Amysinsights11
Terri,

I like you have had a time with outcomes.  I love to control the outcome in the first place!  I learned recently that if I am feeling a need to do something, change something, or be something, I have placed faith and trust in the Universe that it will come to fruition.  It may not be the time we want but faith and trust are the keys to the kingdom here!

Blessings be with you.

Love, light, and blessings,

Amy

# re: Being Attached to Hows and Whens

Wednesday, April 02, 2008 7:08 AM by justaskdrdonna
Needing to know the how and when is based on the fear that we must be at the right place and the right time in order for it to happen. That is rooted in human up bringing. We think that we must control everything in order for it to happen. The new lesson is trusting.

# re: Being Attached to Hows and Whens

Wednesday, April 02, 2008 7:26 AM by DruidsGlenTarot
Being truly able to detach from something is easy to say but quite hard in reality to do. We have no say in whether someone we care for comes back just as it is our choice to re-visit a situation if the opportunity arises. Truly giving up takes time, faith and objectivity that may not be available to us at first. In time the quiet realization that the person may never come back and being in acceptance of that and being okay whether they do or not takes a very long time. It's different for everyone and only comes when you have given up waiting and start living, the only thing we have is right now, that's why it's called the present...
Joan

# re: Being Attached to Hows and Whens

Wednesday, April 02, 2008 8:10 AM by Heartsong
Good post, Amy. A hard lesson, but true. Thank you for the support and gifts you bring.

# re: Being Attached to Hows and Whens

Wednesday, April 02, 2008 10:05 AM by Rosalea
Great blog Amy as usual and I agree you have to let go of the Why's and How's and just accept that it come to you in God's time.  Blessings to Amy and thanks for sharing with us.

Rosie

# re: Being Attached to Hows and Whens

Wednesday, April 02, 2008 12:13 PM by RavensDestiny
Hey Amy this is another great blog.  I have a real hard time with giving up the need to control everything in my path!  Thanks for the info.

Raven

# re: Being Attached to Hows and Whens

Wednesday, April 02, 2008 1:26 PM by NicoleListens
Usually people get upset with me when I tell then this, but some appreciate it....I always say something like this...."the meat in the sandwich (all the specific details) dont matter to me, because I see the job there ..." Kinda like when the caller is saying "well so and so is married and has this and that going on" ....because as a reader you see it or you dont. You have to interpret what you see, there needs to be an interesting story behind it. I have had people argue though that they called for the meat. Well, your retort should be .... "Hey, be happy its there at all...." I know that sounds snide but most of the time you have to learn how to be a good storyteller. If your story is good, and the outcome is still what you said then its all good and everyone is happy. You are accurate. You and I and all other good psychics know thats its all about your interpretation!!!

# re: Being Attached to Hows and Whens

Wednesday, April 02, 2008 7:58 PM by dragongirl08
I keep seeing these posts and messages about detaching, letting go and trusting the Universe to deliver things (in the right time) so it's no coincidence that you posted this message. Yep, the Universe is giving me a clear message.  I'd better listen, lol.
And yes, it's very true. I have seen in my own life how things manifest when you let go and trust and in ways I would have never thought. One of my favourite expressions is, "If you want to make God laugh, tell Him your plans."  
Thanks for the reminder and I'll speak to you when I can. (I miss laughing with you) :-)

# re: Being Attached to Hows and Whens

Thursday, April 03, 2008 12:32 AM by SpiritAngel58
Why do I keep forgetting that?

Because letting go is hard to do! LOL! You want it so bad, you can taste it. But constantly calling and asking when or how or where...it sets things back even further where it almost seems like it will never happen and it won't if you change the course you're on to MAKE IT happen SOONER.

I need to STOP and just let the Universe handled it. But is PATIENCE IS NOT MY VIRTUE.
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