You Can't Take It Back....
Those words sprung out of your mouth before you could catch them...you regret saying those hurtful words...now the person is so hurt and devastated they do not want to be in your presence...
Or you had hurtful words thrown your way...you are suprised and hurt by the person who you thought had your best interests at heart could be so cruel and inhumane. You feel like distancing yourself from the person in question because of the hurt and pain stabbing in your heart...
You can't take back those hurtful words. The person in question acts like they never said those words. Which is worse...hurtful words or actions?
You may need to access your relationship with the person in question very carefully. Sometimes the person in question can comeback later rather than sooner remorseful but it can be too late. It is up to you and you alone to evaluate if you want this person in your life full capacity since you feel if they did this to me once what will make this time different?
If you are the alleged offender, you must do all you can to make it up to the hurt party. It may take time to make it to this person, build their trust, and in time forgiveness will come. You need to forgive yourself though as we all make mistakes. Sometimes the hurt party and you will not have the same relationship. We all must take responsibility for our actions especially our words....