Life is what we make of it, so when creating your existence, make sure you make special notes about those that wrong you. You must have respect for yourself, and must keep the ill affects away from you, as this is the way for inner happiness. Work with people who want to work together, or put the same interest into things that you do.
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Getting Rid Of Toxic People (Written by: LIVING FAITHFUL IN A SOUL-LESS WORLD )
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Remember to ignore those who choose to affect your life through the use of abuse. Abuse comes in many ways, but if we learn to ignore it, they can't affect you.
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Life is filled with a wide array of different scopes of people, which means we are likely to encounter people along our journey that don't warrant the space to be there. These people will use you for a myriad of reasons, but while most are users of your energies, many are also energies of jealousy whom would love to see you fall from what they see is a shiny ray of light. They would rather see you fall below the levels they would want you to be, but to do so would surely make them happy, but bring your level down.
In relationships, people find themselves abused by either people who want to constantly get your attention and help with it, figure they have more of an oppurtunity to find someone if they are around you or simply are jealous because of who may have shown interest in you. Get these people out of your life because they are only soaking up energy and showering negativity, and they have wronged you.
In business, people find themselves abused by people who either want you to help them with all your extra energy, or want your business to fail, so they shower you with negativity. Giving in to this negative energy is a big no-no, as it will affect your career, which is a driving devotion in many of us. Get these people out of your life, and your mind, because they will wrong you.
In friendships, people find themselves abused by people who want to be the center of attention, but don't even realize there are moments where your life is fragile too. These people are quick to ask for help, but also quick to disappear when help is needed. Simply put, a true friend is always there to lend the helping hand, and the abuser of the energy field is the one to be taking from that hand, without ever sticking their hand out in return.
In family, people find themselves abused for many more reason other than other areas. There is such a wide variety of people which fit in this scope, because face it, we are related to one another from many different angles. Family members can do all of the above listed, and then some. They often combine many different areas of abuse if they feel necessary, and get the chance to do it time and time again because they are relatives. I did hear once from a psychiatrist I mused off to, that it's okay to cut family members out of your life for consistiently wronging you, because even if they have emotional issues, they know what they are doing is wrong.
If you are any one of these people getting the abuse, or anyone of the people dishing abuse, the answer is the same. Leave the situation immediately. Those on the abuse side will create bad karma and those that allow the abuse can see the bad karma drift over.
I would now like to take the following moment to recommend some reading material for you. The first and foremost you should look at involves something very well written in regards to the topic you just read about. She is a wonderful person, who has helped many, and she has written an article on Getting Rid Of Toxic People, which goes along great when you have it figured out with who they are.
Many Blessings,
Teresa |