People will incur loss for a variety of reasons when it comes to relationships.  Loss is when something of value no longer exists, and it leaves someone feeling sad inside.  They go through a mourning process, much like that in death, and often become afraid of the future.  These feelings of loss can produce misunderstands in life, create illusional thoughts, and create set backs.  When there is a loss in bonding, people often feel the ease of life is gone, or at the very least, that to get the person back, it would require a great effort, and one we are not sure we want to make.

We have to make sure we know the difference between love and lust.  Sometimes people want something so badly they will satisfy themselves by reasoning about it, and in the process, they can turn this person they are in love with into an object, which takes away from the true gratification of it all. 

During this time frame, you are likely to have someone tell you they would like to get together with you, and although you may want to delay, or second guess the person behind this, it's good to get acquainted.  Understand that not all flirting is empty, some flirting can be seen as a serious signal to get to know you. 

You don't have to settle for love immediately.  Just make sure you are giving yourself delight during this trying time for yourself.  Have fun...refresh your mind, and be playful, but appropriate during this phase.  This is the one thing that could really bring the commitment about that you are looking for, and allow you to be able to take the next step with someone. 

There is tenderness to be had out there for you, and if you open up your heart, you may find that sensitive person is right around the corner.  Someone who will sweetly respond to you, and not only care, but take care of you too. 

Be careful not to set too many rules during this phase.  Remember, these rules you are setting could just be your own self setting up defenses to keep yourself from getting hurt, but these feelings can also make you feel dead inside.  These rules can make people feel restricted, produce an atmosphere of feeling numb, and create a world that is not really real.

Happiness is a main key when loving someone.  Both people need to give and receive, and it's something you are meant to discover at birth.  Don't allow yourself to be naive, where you can't see how the heartbreak is being created.  If you are unaware of what is going on around you, it could make it easier for you to be lied to, and therefore be preyed upon by someone who you have felt this loss with.

True love is around the corner.  You will find that partner that is equal to you.  Romance and love will bind you together, and keep desire strong.  You just have to be willing to work through these challenges.  That is when you will find your dream come true.  That's when the very thought of wanting someone is going to come true.  Love can make you feel successful, and make you want to dance, but to have love, you must seek stability first.

This message was a reading conducted for all those who may benefit.  This channeled message came from the universe, and I hope it can help you.

Many Blessings,
Teresa