Message #1

You are currently in a relationship with someone who needs to become a leader and make decisions in another relationship they are curretly ivolved with.  This person says they are figuring out a way to get this done, but they are afraid of how the decision is going to impact the other person they are involved with...

You trust that this person is truly being a leader in this situation because what they say does seem to feel so real.  You have believed I these words, without a doubt because you were willing to put faith into the person you have fallen in love with.  However, you have come to the conclusion that this person may be using these words as an excuse, because deep down inside, you feel empty, and you don't think this person is really ever going to take the proper steps that are necessary, and it makes it hard for you to believe in them any more.

You are tired of the excuses this person seems to be making when it comes to them going to take the right steps, and you worry that you have been betrayed.  You are tired of feeling like you are trapped in a situation that is being controlled by someone who seems to feel too guilty, and not only is it making you feel like this other person involved is competition, but you also have been made to feel insecure about the whole thing.  You feel that your needs have been put last, in comparison to the other person that is involved.

You just want to have happiness with this person, and you can't seem to find it when things are happening this way, and you just wonder if there is going to be a point where the two of you can really give to each other fully and be able to express your love out in the public.  You understand that there may be children involved, but you want to make sure this person isn't just being deceptive and filling your head with lies to have what they want.  You don't want this person to act like this just so they can look better, nor do you want them to hide things any more.  So you're wondering the bottom line, is this person going to be able to overcome these strong feelings of guilt, and be able to separate from their current partner.

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Message #2

You have been suffering inside because someone you love has decided to call things off, and you haven't heard from them in a while.  You are wondering if this person is ever going to take the risk to be able to contact you again.

You have felt very naive with the onset of the person leaving you, because you just didn't think that was going to happen, as everything seemed to be so perfect.  You didn't see the heartbreak coming, and you have felt used and preyed upon.  Yet you sit back waiting to see if you are going to get a response from this person.  You worry that they are caring about someone else's needs rather than yours, and you hate this fact, considering you allowed yourself to open up and be cared about with the involvement of this relationship.  Just being around this person that touched your heart so delighted you, and you really felt things were moving forward the way they were meant to.

Now, not only did this person leave, but you have not heard from them either.  This really hurts you, because now you wonder if this person is seeing someone else when they told you they couldn't commit to you.  You wonder what went wrong that this person didn't feel their needs were met, and why they felt the need to be tempted by someone else.  You followed all the rules of relationships, but the person in your heart did not, and you have felt like you had to always be defending yourself from getting hurt, even before this person left.  You now understand that you are restricted to how much you can say and do with this person, which has made you wish you were feelingless, and like none of the experience was even real.

You are very upset that you didn't see this coming, and don't understand why the person in your heart didn't talk about things first.  You haven't the first clue whyt his even happened, and just want answers.  You are very disappointed with how things were handled, and very frustrated at the lack of explanation.  You somehow know you want to give up, but you just can't, because another part of you tells you this person is everything you have always looked for.  You want to know if there can still be love and success in this relationship, and whether things will be more stable if he were to return.

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