Following certain rules for getting the best out of your counseling services can be achieved if followed intently.  Before you enter any type of divination, you should be motivated to know exactly what it is you want to understand.

          This information I am about to share with you, will not only help to motivate you for your session, but can also motivate the counselor that is involved.  If you don't care to touch the topics you are afraid of, you won't find a viable solution until it's possibly too late.

          Be enthusiastic with your questions, but also remember other questions will likely arise with the messages you are receiving.  If you can only allow yourself a specific amount of time, you will want to make sure you sort through your questions and put them in order of importance.  Be selective with your questions so you can reach the goal you set prior to the reading, which would be the main question in focus.  The other questions are not as important, and as long as your selected question gets the appropriate response, you can then move into new topics.  Therefore, the biggest issue you have weighing on your mind is the goal of the entire session, and your goal is then followed in order of importance with what can be answered next.  This way, if you run out of funds, you at least had the most important topics covered.

         A reading is only going to be as beneficial as it's made to be.  What I mean by that statement is a reading discusses what is going on around you, why it's happening, and what can be done to improve the situation or benefit your life.  The reading doesn't end when the money runs low.  The reading is not completed until you have taken the appropriate steps to help solve problems that create the existence of your dilemma.  In other words, if you just hear the suggestions, but don't apply the suggestions, you can ultimately change the outcome of your reading, and it's not that the reading was inaccurate, it's now based on the effort of making things come to fruition.

         I will go to hell in a hand basket if God feels I am taking your learning lessons away, or hindering your experiences, as we are put here to populate the earth, but also to develop knowledge.  Therefore, I can not tell you what to do in your situation, and even though people often ask me, I can only offer guidance in terms of what to expect, and only you can decide on your own destiny.

          Your spiritual counselor, particularly as I speak for myself, is going to be your support system to deal with your goal, which remember, was the main question you have been concerned with.  As I help with the situation, I intend on focusing on all questions well.  My primary focus is on your love and devotion towards yourself, and success with needs and wants.  Never have more than two spiritual counselors at one time, and make sure they have the same ideas, practices and belief system.  When one is not available, you can go to the other, but also make note that one reader designed to deal specifically with your needs should be selected as top priority.

          I will be your mentor.  I will help you make a plan, devise a route, and successfully find what you are looking for.  I will be like a life coach, only more appealing as I can help you understand what is going on, and give you insight into your promised future.  Remember, a spiritual counselor, such as myself, uses a lot of energy in making dreams come true, and by helping you feel like a stronger person, so remember, please be sure to encourage the reader for doing the job.  Your spiritual counselor will feel gratitude and return the favor.  This is the greatest bond you can form, and one that is trustworthy.

          I will help you visualize your future, dreams and goals, and then motivate you to make them a reality, and if you have questions in-between readings, or have something you just need to discuss, I am here to communicate what is going on and to give you a shoulder to lean on.  It's more than just the future, it's the support, bonds and friendships evolving from the results of effort, and this effort is made together.

          Because your spiritual counselor may not always be available, it is deeply important to immediately send a message detailing what is going on.  One simple message can bring about good results.  This can give your spiritual counselor time to prepare and come up with the best solution possible, and at a time that is convenient.  With me, it can be anywhere from an hour to a whole weekend, so setting appointments can be a wonderful way to meet up.  I rarely turn a requested appointment away, and the only time the appointment is not taken is because I am far away from my computer/business.

          Being active with your problems is going to make you successful and help you avoid pitfalls, and by obtaining these messages, you will find yourself feeling rewarded.  Remember to keep yourself happy through healthy habits, as being healthy (with body, mind and spirit) helps keep you motivated with your journey.  While attempting to fix a crisis, it's important to maintain your health through eating habits, exercising on a regular basis and managing your time and questions wisely.  Last, but not least, make sure, once again,  you have the best questions for the amount of time you can spend during your session to find peace when it's completed.

          This article was fully written by me, but I did use a motivational section from a book to help me figure out how to put this into perspective.  While the book is not spiritual in nature, the information definitely helped me reach my expectations.  Please see the book referenced as my guide for my spiritual expression.  (I'm big on communication these days.)

REFERENCE:
Watkins, Ryan & Corry, Michael (2008).  E-Learning Companion:  Maintaining Motivation in an Online Course.  Houghton Mifflan Company.