Good Online Communication Helps Develop Good Spiritual Experiences

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These Simple Tips Can Help You Get The Most Out Of Your Answers.

People have asked me how I can give a reading when it’s online with someone I have never met, and not in person.  I can honestly say it’s not really hard to do, and while there are communication techniques used in a personal one-on-one consultation, there are different communication techniques that work for online.  I am here to help you with those areas.

The most common problem is that many people don’t understand how talking to someone in a chat box, or even through e-mail, is completely different than communicating over coffee.  We can't rely on body language, which is very important with communication.  I can honestly say when I participate in tarot parties, or with in-house readings, I know how to handle situations by watching the reactions.  This is not to say I base the reading on the body language, but I notice when I need to stop and explain what was just expressed.  On the other side of the spectrum, you have the internet as a way to network to one another, and while you don’t have body language, you do have emoticons and a special way of communication which can make answers reliable when involving your life and emotions.

So here are the common rules when communicating without body language, or when voices can't be heard.  It’s okay to be upset about an answer, and okay to question what you read or hear, but communicate how you feel about what you have just been told.  Communicate your real sentiments by using 'I' statements, rather than accusations. Accusations occur when someone says 'you did', 'you said', 'you are', etc.  

Another good idea if you are involved with an online session is to utilize emoticons to make a point about how you feel.  This shows the other person you are not angry, but rather confused, or sad, or maybe even happy.  This is a wonderful way to get the attention you deserve, and get the answers you need.

Also, remember to respect the time of the person helping you.  The person helping you has a whole universe of their own to deal with, and it could be hard for this person to give you the service immediately.  Now, some people choose to use ‘flaming’, which is when you send a bunch of mean messages in capital letters, or try to use your messages as a way to control the person’s time.  People often feel accusing statements are another way of flaming someone.  Remember, everyone has to deal with issues, even spiritual professionals.

Following these tips will help you communicate correctly with the person on the other end of your online session.  If you are interested, you may continue this topic by reading the next message involving why you should be relaxed during your session, and how open minded people get better results.  Please click here to read.

REFERENCE:  While I created this article, I did use the book referenced at the bottom as my source of scholarly information.  I used Chapter 6 of this book with regards to "Developing Positive Online Relationships".