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God created us in his image, and when you look at his image, you can see that he is noted for creating the heaven and the earth and all that surrounds us. So then it is conceivable that you can create the existence that you desire for your life, you just have to be willing to follow the right path that is personal for you.
Never give up on your dreams, desires and goals, because these are the very ideas that form our universe that surrounds us personally. Each thing we want is supposed to make us work harder, even if the path seems to be never ending.
And with each thing we accomplish something new will pop up. Obstacles are meant to be surrounding us, because even God has made some mistakes during creation. I had just about given up on
finding love, and my whole life through finding love was my only dream.
I came from a dysfunctional home and rather than finding the love
within myself, I searched to find love through the heart of a
companion. It wasn't until I lost thirty years of my life that I
discovered what I did wrong, and my adventure took me through many
choices I would have done differently. At a young life, even with knowing
I would never love him, I got pregnant with my first child. Still a
child myself, I struggled to try to make things work, only to find
myself disgusted for even trying. Two years later, I met the man I
grew to fight with for the next seven years of my life, even though we
did create three very beautiful children, and when I finally decided I
didn't want to be with someone who abused alcohol and then me
physically, I finally got the guts to move on.
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| The only type of failure you can come across is the situation when you are so afraid of failing that you don't even try. Not trying only leads to chances of opportunity that have become lost in the course of life, and you will always wonder if you would have succeeded if you would have just stuck with things and not given up.
If something doesn't work, you don't give up your goal, you just change the plan. Your plan of action will get desired results. Like they say, 'When at first you don't succeed, try and try again.'
Read my story down below of never giving up on love, and how through the struggles and the hardships, I grew into a beautiful woman who did find love, and a love that is long lasting with a wonderful man. You can have your dream too.
Rather than cry about your
current life, and what you have to go through, pick yourself up, and
work at devising a strategy for improvement. While I do believe that
you are given more than one chance to figure out what is required of
life, you are currently living in the now, and when you were born, you
were given the gifts and abilities to pull yourself through the
hardships. Nothing is going to be handed down on a silver platter and
everything your heart desires is something that can be accomplished.
I moved on all right, right into the
arms of someone who said they could never love me unless my physical
body was that of a roving model. For another five years I stayed with
this person out of the feeling I just didn't want to deal with finding
another person, but ended up leaving when I found myself looking out
the window thinking how much I hated him!
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| The person I married was someone
everyone tried getting me to go out with. Time and time again, I
refused, based on the pretenses that now I knew I was going to do what
was right for me, and I just didn't want to take the chance this person
would be a waste of my time. Without even trying it, I fell in love
with him while seeing him every day at work, we moved in together and
then faced the fact I wanted one more child when he was certain the
three I had were already enough. I was hurt, but explained nicely I
would never bring it up again, but that I did want one more child, and
that it only made me feel like my children were uncontrollable or bad
that he would act like he wanted no more after dealing with them. |