Manipulation Of The Ex

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Ex-Spouses Manipulating Children      There are things you should be aware of when it comes to children involved from past relationships.  I have experienced this first hand, based on things that have happened, and would like to share with you some issues that should be resolved before they become crucial. Beware Of: Letting the ex have too much control. Being careful not to be greedy with the child support. How consequences can change a family. Don't let your ex manipulate, or use your children. Keep open communication with your ex about progress of the children. Reasons:      I allowed my ex to drop by when he wanted, take the children at the drop of a hat, and let them talk whenever they wanted, about whatever they wanted.  This gave my ex the understanding he could do what he wanted, and used his control to manipulate the children right into his arms.  Through the use of money, as well as giving them everything they wanted, and with very little physical background, actually ended up having custody of my children.      This is why it is important to be careful about how much child support you fight to have while your children are growing up.  In the process of what I went through, I discovered you only have to pay as much child support as the other parent did.  I was forever grateful I let his low payments slide for all the years that I did.      What you need to be aware of is how your ex could manipulate your child's life, and how your child could easily use them as an escape goat.  It's important to be strict with your rules, no matter the threat of moving out.  I was not, and kept giving more chances, and when I finally put my foot down, the daddy was to the rescue.  Rather than letting them focus on what they did wrong, they got to move 1300 miles away by making my life horribly hard to deal with, and by tearing the family apart.  Letting your child know there are no other options than your rules is a good step to help prevent this, but this could also be a situation in which you don't have a lot of control too.      My ex used the golden moment of my daughter not wanting to be grounded to offer the better haven.  Although my daughter doesn't know what she's in for, and neither does he, he happily skipped off with her today.  You can rest assured, the future will prove to bring the truth to the surface, but if you allow their father the independence to privately put the thought in their heads, then they can ultimately use this thought when they don't want to deal with their own problems they created.      It is unethical, by standards of law, for the father to ask these questions of living upon the children, but if you don't keep good tabs on what is happening, he can slip right out from underneath you, and will use this to his advantage.  Don't allow the children to explain the bad, make sure you explain the bad so you may control the future stability of your family.   Pains Of Adolescence Childhood Abuse Poem:  My Father & Article Ignoring Abuse How Many Of These Children Have You Met? Shorthand Version Of Childhood Negativity My True Story Of Child Abuse Currently The Best Answer Being Offered To 1 Ques.  Very Comprehensive Answer To One Question Get Huge & Detailed Information To One Question  Get Quadruple The Information To One Question!   As I was told, "The angry child will not stop, trying to destroy everything, and everyone around them, and just when you think they can't interfere any more, they'll try even harder to prove you wrong."      In other words, you are not a failure if you do have to let go.  There come a point when you can't accept any more interference, and you need some sane peace of mind.

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