The Perfect Partner Gone Missing
GENERAL READING MESSAGE TWO:
You really felt you met that perfect person, with the perfect connection that would last a lifetime.
You have tried very hard to make this relationship be as strong as it could be, despite the fact that you have had a lot of broken promises spoken to you.
This perfect person didn't seem to stay very long in the relationship, and quit talking with you as much, which has left you feeling more lonely inside.
DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?
If this sounds like something you've been going through, let me discuss a little bit with why this has even taken place. First of all, this partner that seemed to be so perfect was actually someone with a lot of problems, and doesn't appear to be all that willing to talk about them. The actions that you did get lucky enough to see was mostly the first words that ever made you feel good.
You have split apart and have gone in your own direction because in his mind, his heart is telling him that he needs to be able to provide more elegance for himself before this person could take something more on. This person keeps a lot of things inside about things he has experienced when he has gotten together with other people. He tries to put the effort into things, but these problems reside inside him, and they are growing strength. There will be some slow progress that can come out of this, but for a little while, you are not going to feel like you want to express any happiness, and you are worried that your effort is going to be unrewarding anyway, as this is such a tricky situation.
This whole situation has to be carefully developed, or there isn't going to be any peace found within the relationship itself. It's going to take a huge amount of effort to be able to break through those barriers and create a new mindset. It's going to take some observing and contemplation before this person comes out of this slump, but if this effort is not part of the equation, you will be less likely to find success in your goal of maybe wanting this person back.
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