Words

Words Can Break Marriages

The power of words can change your mind, heart, life and heal important situations involving the deepness of your soul.  How you say something to someone will give the results of their reaction, so that makes it very important for you to listen to what I'm telling you.

 

Lets pretend for a moment that you've been wanting something put together that came in the mail, and you wanted help, but the partner you are with seems to be sitting in the chair unable to comprehend how important this is for you.  You're sitting across from your partner, on the couch, thinking, "It sure would be nice if you would offer to help me."  Well, if you choose your words correctly, your partner will help you, but the first step is getting off the couch to show that you are actually going to do it.  This step has to do with action.

 

Now lets take two scenereos and see how you think they will work out.  So, lets go back a step and begin with you're sitting on the couch, and you have brought up for four days how you would like your new item from the mail to be put together so you can use it.  You have been anxious, and now getting impatient, but with all the remarks you have made, you were never attempting to already set to the task of accomplishment.

 

Now lets say while you remain seated on the couch, you look at your partner and say, "You know, all I do is want to please everyone else, but when is everyone else going please me?  You don't care how much this means to me do you?  Well, I guess next time, I'll show you how this feels then, and I won't do what you desperately think is important."

 

You're most likely going to get an offended person after a statement like that, and one that feels offended will often become defensive, which rarely produces a positive outcome.  It's more inclined to send you to the boxing ring, followed by several moments of not talking to eachother.

 

Now lets say you got up from the couch, and walked over to the item you need assistance with, and start to unpack it.  Your partner is going to watch what you are doing, and even though you've mentioned it several times already is more apt to ask you what you are doing.  If at that point you said, "Well, I'm going to try to put this item together so I can use it.  I'm so anxious for it, but I'm a little confused with what the directions are telling me.  I was hoping you could help me."  

 

At this point, you would have chosen your words wisely, and now there's a ninety percent chance that you are going to get the help you need.  So remember, when you decide to get a point across, do it in a positive fashion, as words can either make, or take, from human emotions and ambitions.

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