I believe that most of the people we read for on Keen are sensitives.  I mean even if they are not fully open, they are picking up vibrations around them, probably always have. 

That can make dating a complicated issue.  Psychics read souls and energy. Living on this planet, we need to read behavior and real world participation especially when it comes to romantic relationships.

 

So you have been dating someone you have a great connection with, maybe even discussing more for the relationship. You have been dating 1-6 months. You feel he might be the one.  Then something happens he backs off. He doesn’t return calls as much, makes excuses.  He says he needs “SPACE”. You understand beyond understanding, “he is really busy with work right now, his ex is giving him a really hard time, his wife is giving a hard time.”  You know, if you could only talk to him or be with him he would see how great it is and how it is meant to be. Maybe you act on that thought, maybe you don’t, and you just call your psychic. You just can’t seem to shake your connection to him, you try to for a time, but it doesn’t seem to help.  Stop right there!!

 

I know our culture uses the “soulmate” word too much, and I believe it to be used in the wrong context. The term in my estimation is every soul that you work your karma out with, good and bad.  We feel it to our core, our hearts know them.  Our guides set it up so the work is done with this person.  It is not a guarantee you will be with them forever. In fact in my experience, they are some of the hardest relationships. They stir your growth or point you in the right direction. Very few have I seen work out as love matches and if they do, it is because both parties are aware and make that choice. So you are picking up there is a connection, but you have to deal with real world events.

 

Give him the space.  If he asks for it, he needs it. The best you can do with that is define it.  Is it permanent or temporary? Is there email or no email etc…Work with your own feelings, recover and here are some rules of thumb:

1.  Recognize his point of view

 

2.  Remain in control of your emotions, no blaming, shaming or contempt.

 

3. Have self respect, don’t call 10 times a day, drive by his house or follow him they call that “Stalking”.

 

4. Grow; improve yourself, your mind.  

 

5. Look your best- but a little mystery does not hurt.Take care of your health, sleep, eat and get exercise.  Break ups are stressful. Also make sure you do nothing in excess, including drinking. It is easy to want to stuff your feelings.  How ever you could make your emotions worse in the long run, and sometimes weird things happen when you go out, trust me I know. 

 

6.  Live again, after all you are single, flirt, enjoy your friends, do what you want.

 

7.  Don’t meddle in his business, let it go as much as you can

 

8.  Patience is a virtue- so stay back

 

9. Be kind to yourself as you will do none of these perfectly

 

10. Make sure you have support, friends, family, what ever you have, it is too hard to do alone

 

11.  If this doesn’t work time heals, and you really don’t want someone who doesn’t have the good sense to choose you.

 

Remember, the one who invests the most time into the relationship, hurts worse when it is over.