DEAD IN YOUR TRACKS OR POLARIZED
DEAD IN YOUR TRACKS
OR POLARIZED
Do you feel you
cannot move forward, maybe you cannot even move backwards, or you cannot turn to the left and you cannot
even turn to the right. Then you have entered the zone
called POLORIZED. A not at all fun place
to be. You are in a stagnant position.
It may seem that as you try to move toward
positive changes you are overwhelmed by the negative problems and find yourself
giving up to the negative forces. A
single Mom often finds this situation to be in her life. As she tries to be competitive in the market
place she is taken down by the demands of parenting. She must provide costly childcare, meet the
schedules of her children, be forever vigilant, and transport her charges here
and there. While the single person can
easily meet the demands of a career because it is them and the job. Sometimes age, physical disabilities,
education, the economy etc. bring us to the standstill.
It may seem that when we give into the
negative, really positive solutions seems to appear. Again we start that trip toward the sunshine
and the good. However. once again we
collapse into the pain of the giant problems of the darkness.
So what is the answer to this never ending
struggle.
We rise above it and this is how. We
begin to do the things we thought we could never do. If we need a job, we increase the number of
interviews we do in a week or the number of resume we mail. If we cannot find a life partner we increase
our social skills. We learn to dance, to
bowl and to play cards etc. We do
makeovers, lose weight, we tone, we get the best hair cut, we do to modeling
school and we look for self improvement classes etc. If we need more money we get training in a
skill that pays, we learn to invest, we look for home based business for extra
work, we prospect for side jobs, we interview people who are making money for
new ideas.
When we have exhausted all the ways to do
the things that we thought were too difficult, we simply return to the spot
where we cannot move and turn to the first opportunity that presents itself and
it will work for you as easy as pie. The reason it will
work is because you have reprogrammed your mind and you have new channels to
use. You can do it because you have a
new mind to use.
Being polarized is of course a dreadful
place to be. It is about failure,
despair and self rejection. So remember
to rise above the situation by doing things you thought you could never do even
if you do these hard to do things poorly.
The effort and the new thinking is the thing that will propel you
forward.
ANNA AND THE ANGELS