I can’t tell you how many times I have had this conversation over the years.   You find yourself in love with a person who is in a committed relationship with someone else.  It doesn’t matter how or why it happened, what does matter is how you’re using the short life span you have been blessed with. The person controlling the triangle is getting what they want, but what about you? 

They want you, they have you.  They see you when it’s convenient, depend on you to be there when they just need a caring ear to listen and usually they hide you.  God forbid the person they are committed to finds out about you, it would ruin everything.

Statistically once a love triangle begins if the person controlling the triangle doesn’t walk away from their committed relationship within 6 months time they won’t walk away at all.   They want to stay in their relationship for whatever reason no matter what they tell you.

I can hear the wheels spinning, “but Amore, I know he/she loves me, they just can’t end their relationship right now.”  BUNK, they can do what ever they decide to do.  They have made the choice not to end the relationship because they are getting something out of it.  Something they want, be it relief of guilt, to keep their material belongings, the kids are always a good excuse or they simply want the best of both worlds, it truly doesn’t matter.  The bottom line is, the reality of the situation is – this person is doing what is in their best interest not what’s in the best interest of their relationship with you.  You are not included in their life, you are being fit into their life and there is a huge difference. You deserve better!

 

I’m not saying the person doesn’t love you; they probably do, but it certainly can’t be the way you want or need to be loved.  I’m reasonably sure your dream isn’t to be “the other woman/man”.  

 

Are You Singing Backup To The

As Soon As Ballard?

 As soon as this happens as soon as that happens.

Can’t end it today because, can’t end it tomorrow because.

 Be patient my love ~ Be patient.

 

I’m sorry folks, but this doesn’t translate to being patient, it translates to being a fool.  Don't waste your life waiting for someone elses someday. We are all going to die "someday" and that day could come sooner than we think.