SOULMATES ~ Are they what you think they Are??
SOULMATES ~ Are they what you think they Are??
The Number One misconception I hear with my clients is the “Soulmates” are going to be your lifetime lovers. Nothing is further from the truth.
A soulmate by definition is an individual that you have made a contractual agreement with pre-incarnation to enter your life for a specific purpose and often for only a specific period of time. They could be a teacher who inspires you, a regular guy who seems to know exactly what to say during a brief conversation that changes your view or a family member that you have a deep-shared bond. They also can be your Arch-Nemesis, the boss that fired you, the boyfriend who unceremoniously dumped you or the guy that just crashed into your car. Surprised?
The term “soulmate” became romanticized as the perfect someone to fill up all of your needs and would gleefully guide you to your bliss. That does happen on occasion, however, lessons and life course corrections come in many guises. Often times our soulmates are people from our past lives, someone we entrusted long ago to complete a mission for us in this lifetime and so the connection and interaction (whether we deem it “good” or “bad”) will be deeply personal and deeply felt. It is meant to get our attention, so to speak.
Often times by nature these encounters could last for only a few moments, months and even years, but not forever. You may love them, hate them, hold them in high esteem, but they will make an impact on your life. When their time has past in your life they will move on and trying to change that fact will cause you great pain. It is usually will require a blessing and a release for you to regain your balance before you can see “the gift” that has appeared because of their presence in your life. Even if the gift cannot be understood or is never acknowledged it is still there.
This is not to say that your siblings, parents, best friends for life and even life partner may not be a “soulmate”, predestined or chosen, however, they are not guaranteed. The soulmates we choose in this life are just as important as the ones we have made arrangements pre-incarnation and may be a player in your next life as well.
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