One of the most frequent problematic situations that I see women suffering from, (yes, primarily women), is that when they are interested in one man, they stop looking at their other options!

Women tend to behave like a DVD player when it comes to initiating new relationships.  It's like they are watching a movie and they see a handsome and attractive man, most likely NOT the leading man, and they hit the pause button!  If only they would let the entire film play and see who the real leading man is, they would surely have a lot more enjoyment!

Men are perfectly capable of multi-tasking while dating.  Men frequently date several people at the same time until they find that one that makes them stop and stand still in there tracks.  The rest of the women kind of just shed off, like snake skin, and the bright shiny new skin of a relationship is exposed.

Women, on the other hand, meet a gentleman they are interested in and tend to stop "shopping around".  They immediately go into the mode of anxiously awaiting the next contact, refraining from making plans to keep their weekend clear in case he invites them out, projecting with friends and advisors as to "where this is going to go?", instead of continuing to meet and greet new men and more opportunities.

I can't stress strongly enough to you, my sisters, that UNTIL a gentleman asks you to be his one and only, you need to be placing your fragile, pretty little Easter Eggs of emotion into as many brightly colored baskets as you can find.

Instead of waiting by the phone for the most recent "Mr. Rightnow" to call, get out, keep moving, keep shopping around, and let "Mr. Rightnow" leave you a voicemail.  Get back to him when YOU are free or have time, don't wait, keep moving!!!

See the ENTIRE movie, hit PLAY not PAUSE!!!

Love and Light,

Brigid Bishop