Brigid Bishop on Life, Love and The Art of Living

Where Is My John Wayne???  (Where To Meet Men)

This is a common question on womens' minds, and even more frequently, as an Advisor on Keen, I pick up the phone and the querent on the other end of the line asks me "When will someone new come into my life, and where will I meet him?".

Being a Professional Tarot Reader on Keen for ten years, I can tell you of the 30,000+ readings I have provided, that this is one of the most difficult questions to answer.

First of all, timing and the tarot is very difficult, I can provide you with my best estimate, however, I cannot nail it down to a specific day.  Dependent upon how the cards come up in your reading, whether they are very distinctive giving me a clear answer, or kind of misty and weak, giving me an indeterminate answer, is how I can provide an answer for you.

When the cards come up well defined as to when, and the type of man the querent is going to meet it is because the querent is doing all of the free will exercises that she needs to to improve her odds of bringing love into her life.  This means she is very social, gets out and puts herself in social situations, doesn't sit at home and wait for the new man to somehow "beam down" from metaphysical ectoplasm into her living room.  These readings are usually extremely accurate and easy for me to interpret.

The difficult reads are the querents who get the weak cards.  The opportunities and possibilities are there, but the cards are weak because the querent is living a very asocial existence and is not "getting out there".

I give readings in an honest and forthright manner, and if I DON'T see someone new coming in in the time frame I am scouring, I will tell the querent so.  If the querent is open to more than just a "psychic quickie" and is really looking to change her situation, I will tell her straight out that her cards are telling her she needs to make certain changes, whether it is taking a class in something she always wanted to learn, joining a club or organization, checking out an online dating service, getting involved in volunteer work, or just doing a little "clubbing" with the girls to get herself out there........changes need to be made.

In order to prevent copyright infringement, this blog has been condensed to an excerpt as it currently appears in Brigid's book "The Dating Game, Insights Into Affairs of The Heart" released in April 2010 and available at Amazon, on Kindle and at fine book sellers everywhere.  Ask for it by name! This blog was originally Copyrighted in July 2007

The Dating Game
Insights Into Affairs of The Heart
Authored by Brigid Bishop

Social networking sites, cell phones, texting, online chat and dating make it easier for us to access each other, but more difficult to form solid emotional bonds.

The 21st Century has life and relationships moving at a pace never before realized in earlier cultures. People are plugged in and connected on a 24/7 basis, yet, many still struggle with establishing healthy relationships.

The Dating Game provides insights into modern relationships and provides the reader with strategies for coping with dating, breaking up, affairs, divorce and codependency issues.

Find dating tips and relationship strategies that will help you build the healthy connections you want and begin making your relationships work for you.

Written with a sense of humor and true understanding of what the single person is facing today.

Copyright © 2010 by Brigid Bishop