People don't change, only love creates healing changes from within.
The attempt to change someone, make them different is often felt as an attack. Sometime, try love, freely shared, with no demand, to be the healing agent.
Wanting a relationship to work, sometimes means being willing to love, just as things are, just as the loved one seems to be.
However, sometimes the true healing is a choice to shift one's own life around, rather than another's.
We can have a session, to discover where the change, the healing is best accessed in your life.
Peace,
Laurel