Set a Goal !
What does it mean to have consideration for yourself first?
Does it mean to be greedy or selfish? Of course not! If you are not having fun, you need to take a second look at how you are doing what you are doing. Everyone has obligations and responsibilities - but what if you turned those into opportunities to be more of service to yourself and others?
If you know exactly what you are learning from everything you are involved with, you are on the right track. If you are not learning anything, why do it? Isn't that the whole purpose for being on planet earth to begin with? We did not come here to suffer. This is a concept that has been handed down from generation to generation. You do not need to deny yourself to grow spiritually. As a matter of fact, it is the opposite.
The more you are enjoying life and showing others how to do the same thing, you are doing what you came here to do. We all come here with a unique spiritual message to share with others. When you pass on, you will be the same soul you were when you were here. You do not change your state-of-consciousness. This is why being an example of what it means to be loyal to yourself while you are in a physical body is so important.
Set a goal to be a wayshower for yourself and others from now on.
Brightest Blessings,
Crystal