How To Train Your Man,
Boyfriend or Girlfriend
Why do men do what they do! You know they know better! You let them get away with it because you love them! So, now that your tired of picking up behind them and working like a dog, cleaning the house, and taking care of everything else in your world ... you come to a sad realization ... you've spoiled your man ... or you've spoiled your boyfriend ... or you've spoiled your girlfriend ... you let them get away with murder ... and now ... you've got to learn ... HOW TO TRAIN YOUR MAN! BOYFRIEND OR YOUR GIRLFRIEND!
1. You can say anything and say it nicely. However, if you don't say it and get his attention, he won't try to change. Most men are aggressive by nature but their intelligent, which means, they can be trained! Women are manipulative by nature but with love and consistency, they can be trained!
Aggression
He's out of control and constantly acts up. Brainwashed by a steady diet of male propaganda, he's now "empowered," meaning that his thoughts run somewhere along these lines: "Women have been holding me back, I want mine now, and I don't care what pair of breasts I have to step on to get it. Since a man's brain is unable to distinguish logic from emotion, this kind of fantasy thinking will prompt him to act in self-destructive patterns and will cause you undue stress around the house. When he's mad, he stumps his big feet, causing minor earthquakes in the home or worse yet, he yells, scaring you half to death or he threatens you ... giving you a mean look trying to intimidate you ... making you back down and shut up! You must stop this bad behavior and let him know raising his voice and stomping his big feet is not acceptable! Please, stop doing that! Be firm.
Whining
He likes to be left alone ... so he can watch tv, sports in peace! He pouts when you want to interrupt his peace and talk, talk, talk. He pouts when you want to go shopping with your girlfriend. Running up huge credit card bills and keeping him in the poor house! He knows you want him to buy you something but he knows ... you will outspend him three to one so whatever he gets, he's looking for something affordable, knowing your going to buy yourself something to make it up, later on. He wants you to smile, make him something to eat and leave him alone to watch ESPN. He won't tell you your too fat because he thinks your still quite sexy. It's the sex that thrills him. So, he enjoys when you learn to tighten those sexual muscles and give him the thrill of a life time.
Barking
Ruff, ruff, ruff. Once he starts talking, you can't shut him up! He talks about fixing the car, watching ESPN, what's for dinner! But the problem is that he goes on and on and on about nothing. You're on the phone, trying to close a business deal, and there he is in the background, yipping about the big screen tv he wants to save up and buy. So, offer to help him buy that big screen tv and keep the beer cold for him on the weekend. Surprise him with his favorite hoagie or sub sandwich on those special ESPN nights, when he shows good behavior.
Disobedience
Like a dog, bad behavior is hard to train. No matter what you want, he always insists on getting his own way, then throws a tantrum, stumping his feet, yelling and screaming if you oppose him. He's always escaping from the house or yard to go run his errands. He won't respect your commands ("stay," "roll over," "lie down," "play dead"). During the difficult times, you have to let him no, his bullying is not acceptable and you will take away one of his pleasures ... no cold beer, no hoagie or sub sandwiches will be made by your pretty little hands today!
Begging
He always "begs" when he needs sex -- never on all fours. All you hear from him is, "I want this," "Give me that" and "The neighbors are swinging ... do you want to swing too?" He won't even offer to take you out for a nice dinner and a movie. So, you have to change him. You have to start suggesting that the two of you have a date night and then a romantic evening!!! When you give it to him, having exercised those sex muscles, making him scream in absolute pleasure ... he will appreciate the fact that he took you out to a good dinner and a movie!
Home Destruction
You just can't leave him alone at home. You go out for a few hours and when you come back, he's pulled up DIY on your computer and he's wrecking, reconstructing the whole house. He's too tired to finish the job but he will leave everything wrecked until next weekend. Discussing a budget and what expenses are acceptable each month will help you keep his home improvement jobs greatly limited.
Not fetching
An improperly trained man doesn't know that he should always bring you a gift around sweet heart holidays and anniversaries and national holidays. So, when you discuss the budget at the beginning of each month, you tell him and write it down for him so he doesn't forget that he should buy a gift for you for the holiday of that month. You, of course, will try to have a decent meal for him and a cold beer when he gets home on a routine basis.
Chasing
Men are naturally attracted to sexy objects, the female figure, sexy women, anything that looks like breasts and fast-moving, powerful automobiles. An untrained man will abandon you and run after any friend with a new car headed for a sports bar, like Hooters! It depends on how open minded you are about this. You can give him a time limit or you can offer to cook up some fancy wings and shake your boobs for him for dinner!
Not being housetrained
Men are notorious for not knowing how to put the toilet seat down. You may have to put up a pretty, framed picture over the toilet which simply says ... If you love me, you will remember to put the toilet seat down. (A sexy picture of you in bed).
Training Your Man / Boyfriend / Girlfriend
You can see how much upset an untrained man can bring into your life. So how can you counteract these bad behaviors?
Act early and often
Men have to be taught obedience from day one, or they will soon think that their bad behavior will be tolerated. Once improper patterns have been imprinted on the male brain, they can be extremely difficult to alter -- you can't teach an old man new tricks ... but you could try. If you repeat it enough, they will do it just because they've heard it so often, they thought it was their idea! The idea is to set the ground rules at the beginning of the relationship so that he can understand what's expected of him. This means his regular night out with the guys, sharing dating expenses and sex on his terms is not going to happen ... he can spend time with his friends but after the two of you schedule your time together, he's dating you, he should pay for the expenses of the date and their will be no sex on his terms ... there will be sex ... after marriage or a serious commitment is made. Definitely no sex within the first six months of dating!
Don't be afraid to say "no"
As many would believe, men are as bright as women, we're equally intelligent, although they typically have to be told more than once. It will often translate into sex with men so say "no" often unless he shows good behavior and positive patterns in a relationship.
Use operant conditioning
Freely encourage his good behaviors with praise and rewards (rubbing him behind the ear, stroking his back, pet his belly, rubbing his butt) while ignoring the bad behaviors or giving a common command for a bad behavior (shaking your head no, pointing a discerning finger). The idea is not to punish him for doing something wrong (unless he's into that sort of thing), but to withhold attention from the behaviors you don't like. This way, he will slowly catch on and eliminate the unwanted patterns from his repertoire. As he starts to become dependent upon your approval or disapproval, he will act more agreeably and respectfully toward you.
Practice makes perfect
All in all, obedience training is one of the best things you can do for your man and yourself, because a well-trained man makes for a happy relationship. It can enrich your dating life by eliminating unwanted behaviors and can make your time together much more enjoyable. The ultimate result is that you'll wind up with a man who will treat you well and work hard to please you... the perfect pet to have around the house.
If you treat him with love and respect and demand that he treats you also with love and respect, you will see your relationship getting better and better. Don't spoil him but do love him and share with him. You both will find you can be happy in a relationship when your both honest with each other and the communication lines are open, effective and clear. So, dear, train your man ... boyfriend ... girlfriend ... you will be glad you did. If you find that you get hung up at times, call me, I can get into their head and I can tell you exactly what their thinking and how best to play them.
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