Ever wonder what happened 6 months into a relationship and the change in HE/SHE'S attitude? Leaving you confused and wondering what you did wrong, or is HE/SHE cheating on me? You become the interrogator, and you don't get the answers. When you do, they don't make any sense. You are both victims by this time, the one suffering from their past experiences (that could go back to one's childhood), thus they are commitmentphobic. This is a real symptom, the person afflicted by this usually is not aware. The emotional damage that has been done to you makes you angry or more the aggressor which causes the victim to retreat from you. You can not erase what has been done and try to retrieve the relationship because you are now a victim also. Unfortunately, the Honeymoon Phase is over and you will never see He/She the same way as you did in the beginning. You have choices, to understand the one you love or falling in love ,who suffers from the symptoms, by deciding to weather this out or throw in the towel. No one is Born with this affliction. It is created by conditions, and expereinces in life. Like modeling clay, is it a master piece or something else? We are all the artist in our creation. Your Spirit is the Master Piece, However, the mental and physical can be totally different because we have mind (mental), Physical (memory), which translate to feelings and recall. As an Empath, I feel what you feel and also the lover in your life. Is there a cure? Not 100% No. There are awarenesses that can be mentioned to help the one afflicted to overcome, depending if they are mentally, emotionally, intellectually able to help one self. This journey may be viewed as selfish by some, It's their personal quest to reach the answers alone. Victory is the goal. Sadly, most don't know where to start on their journey and have blocked out any of their past memories. Re-opening the memories, is very painful. But, medicine is not meant to taste good. We take it to cure our suffering. Perfect Happiness is when mind, body, and spirit are all in balance.