Dilani Diva ~ Strings of the Heart

Facing the Dynamics of change .

We are creatures of habit. We love the familiarity of what we know. We go to the same places we have been to . Eat the same foods …. And walk our dog in the same park. Its just the feeling of comfort that seems to drive us to familiar paths. Nothing wrong with that , In order for us to be revitalized and refreshed in our souls we need to have places of rest and comfort . they bring safety to our souls. Which is a good thing by all measures.

however to bring radiance to your life a sense of newness must be experienced. We derive a sense of bliss and release with new things. For example, We women like to shop. A new pair of shoes can make us feel like eagles in the sky …. Walking high . feeling tall. I would try to find a party to go to every time a bout a new dress. It is interesting how a platonic event can bring a spiritual uplifting. It does ! this goes to show how things are interconnected, physically and spiritually.  That’s just how new energy works . It gives us power and drive.

It is important to  recognize that whichever path we take makes us move forward , backwardstandstill. While we like to stay on a  known path….. life moves on ahead of us.  A good example was discussed by a doctor of psychology recently.  

She mentioned how people just stuck to some periods of clothing and style just because they were used to and liked what they looked like during that time.They must have received compliments on it during the time. And so they would wear the period clothes day in and day out !!!!!!!  I have seen that in many . people still stuck to the 70’s …. And the world has walked on .

There is nothing wrong with that … but don’t sit and grumble that you did not get that new job . that things are way too hard for you . what’s all this new technology doing ???? creating a mess on your simple life. The world moves on . They will not wait for you .

A better way to embrace the changes and change is to find a stable middle path. Ok so you cant afford to get a whole new wardrobe of clothes . but you can start doing some positive thinking !!!! planning and preparing . Focus on what brings you joy . and spend some time visualizing and making time to achieve it. Rome was not built in a day.

One must be practical with your desires.  For example ,We all cannot be miss universe , but you can achieve a beauty within and without by spending a little time on you ! Learning to love you and enjoying you in the first step.

We have some great tools that are built- ins .. as I call them. Knowledge and discernment. Don’t be afraid to look over your shoulder take a sneak peek at your past. Just pick on the high lights don’t pick on the crud you left behind. Then see if you are doing better today. Have you grown ? are you making the right choices ? are you working yourself to a better position ? Maybe your life path has changed…

for the better. This could be measured by the standards of  Family, friends, finances and most importantly …. Your relationship with God , your lover and your self. That’s a mouthful I know . but hey no one said that life was just a walk in the park. Sometimes we have to rest and sometimes we have to participate. Get the balance . don’t be a hermit or a party pooper. A lot of everything is good for nothing……

So take a moderate step and work your way through it.

It is important that we look at ourselves and call things as they are. It gives power and insight to the soul. Taking responsibility for what we have done and who we are is important. This helps us to move forward.

There is a lot of change around us. Positively and negatively . You must choose carefully what you want. Your home needs to be without confusion. So don’t bring home a lot of stuff that the universe throws at you . All things that are out there is not for you . Choose wisely . pick on that which nourishes you ….. to get rid of crap can be hard. So just don’t pick it up.

You may be in a financial or emotional bind and non of these words would be speaking to you today. However my friend please understand this. No one is suffering from this as much as you . and YOU have the power to change it !!!!!

So why not. Or are YOU that is going to be STUCK !!!!!!

You have the “ Power to choose “ Choose wisely !!!! You have the “ Power to change “ change “ NOW “ there is nothing like the “ Now “

Don’t embrace your fear ! Embrace the new reality your creating !

It can bring you a renewed spirit and a powerful release !!!!!!!!

Be like a bird …….. Have you ever seen one fly backwards ????? they NEVER DO !!!!

So lets move on and set our souls free . You are the one in the drivers seat of you’re  life. YOU change the gears ! YOU have the brakes ! YOU have the power !

So take it and use it . what are you afraid of ??????

Feel the desire !!!!! Feel the change !!!!!!

LIVE and LET LIVE !