Dilani Diva ~ Strings of the Heart

Love Stands by the door
Sending Shivers down my spine,
Till I can stand no more.
Will he love me ?
I don’t know.
Finding out is what I need to do,
and who knows - the one
May Just be You !

Time’s have changed, bringing love to us through telephone lines and computer screens. Dating sites flash wonderful welcoming pictures at us all the time. Life is good. Love is good.

There are many that have found ” true love” through many of these wonderful places. however there are others that seem to be struggling with these ” virtual ” love affairs. Even though this form of connection may appear to be distant and disconnected there are many who have made a heart felt commitment to some wonderful man that has swept the off their feet. Experiences connected to a screen of a computer. The feelings that develop through these intimate conversations are as real as those who are in the same room. Even though one could say that the fantasy lives on, it is indeed a very real sort of fantasy to some, and not to be taken lightly.

This is all well and good, today we are indeed blessed with more opportunities of meeting ” the one” However it is important to bring this love to light, bring it to the open, bring it to reality. Some times we don’t really want that . for the ” fantasy somehow has a better feeling of love, than actually going through the motions of meeting the man or women and then having to learn who they really truly are. Often enough many people come with baggage and you end up having to share the load.Not fun at all. Incomes the Load and out goes the Joy !!!!

So we are left with the Good and the “not so good” aspect of these vibrant ” loves” It is always better at a early stage to encourage them to meet you. That way, even though the fantasy dies and reality begins, your heart has time to decide if this is what you would like to explore.

Now let me not burst the bubble for those who enjoy Cyber-Talk. If this is indeed an enjoyment factor, please continue !!! However, remember to be responsible to your heart. If it is the thrill and the joy you are seeking, then go for it.If it is the love and the companionship that you are looking for then, take that cyber love,and make it real. Go meet the man. Go meet the women. Take it to the next level. There is nothing sweeter than finally saying hello.

Try not to have GREAT expectancies, but be open to learn and share what truly is real. there is a lotta love out there and there is one just for each of us. So there is nothing wrong in seeking, finding, Loving and resting. My wish for all of you, is to seek that better love that lies within all of us.
Don’t kiss your computer- kiss your man !
and smile when you do it.