This is especially for those who were alone on the holiday. Thanksgiving-

 You may be alone because you desired to be, you were a lone because someone in your life had hurt you and you needed the space to think and to cry. Or you were alone because your special person was not there to share this moment with you….. what ever the reason for those whose smile had left your face: for a brief moment there was deep contemplation.

Grief or sadness  is generally a reflective emotion. It is caused by a feeling of loss, followed by pain. It can leave us feeling and looking like little rag dolls, hiding away in our little closets. Remember my friend, if you have been left behind by another or hurt by another it is normal to experience this.

However it is important to turn and look at yourself in the looking glass.

How do you look this morning? How do you feel? Do your eyes hold pools of tears?
 Has your face lost its cheery smile?

Now you may feel that it is not possible for you to go there. However, it is important to remember that the power to love and to be love does not come from the outside of you but from within you. Hurt or pain brings to mind how much we have cared and so it is a positive factor in our own sensuality, to feel. However reliving it over and over is not the right thing to do. It can strip you of your beauty and then take away your power to be loved and adored.

Remember, the person on the out side will see what you reflect. Ask your self this question…….????
 If you were out there would you reach out to you, and love you?
 
Or would you run a mile ……!

 

People attract others when they have joy in their soul. And it comes primarily from a place of peace and well being. Joy, attracts and draws the light.

If you were to be with some one this moment, how would you like that person to be?
Think of their manner, their face, their smile……That which makes your heart skip……
Remember that!!!!!
 well embrace that within your soul and reflect that, so that when your lover does see you or hear you he would

Love YOU......... be in YOUR presence.

It is easier to connect with those who have peace and joy within them. Turmoil pushes energies away. It keeps people apart. That what you are trying not to create, is created.

Beauty attracts beauty, and evolves towards the higher goal.. Let us all reach that higher place. Let us all find our joy. Let us all become stronger and wiser today. To be beautiful for you, that is important. Do not loose that. Remember to look in the looking glass. Create a reflection you would love to live with, and he or she will come to your life sooner than you think.

Embrace the Morn and be a new you. Be beautiful. Be at peace.
THINK BEAUTIFUL AND HAVE A BLESSED HOLIDAY SEASON.