Karmic Healing
Many
of us have unanswered questions ranging from why we have unusual phobias to why
we choose certain partners. Maybe the
question relates to the reason behind a weight problem, why you have a fear of
water, or where certain talents were acquired when no one in your family
possesses the same abilities. Perhaps
you are asking why you are interested in someone who is married or why the
person who appeared to be so right turned out to be so incredibly wrong?
It
all seemed so perfect in the beginning…as if you were meant to be
together. You picked up on each other’s
thoughts, connected in a way you never imagined (or maybe you did imagine it)
and then all of the sudden reality dumped a bucket of cold water over your
head.
The other day a caller asked, “How do I erase this man from my mind?” and
I couldn’t help but laugh. It would be
nice if it were that easy! I’m sure we all could think of a few we would like
to erase.
Speaking
of erasing…I recently ran across a wonderful book called “Karmic Healing” by
Djuna Wojton and if you flip to Chapter Eight, there are some helpful tips on
expediting the erasing process.
Oftentimes those mind boggling relationships are nothing more than
unresolved soul issues from a previous life.
According to Djuna Wojton, karmic relationships can appear in a few of
the following ways:
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Red Flags: Relationships involving hazardous conditions, meaning they
actually cause harm.
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Replays: The same situation repeating itself in this life, although the
names may have changed. Basically, you
didn’t learn in the last life, so you get another chance….sounds exciting, but I think I’ll pass on this one.
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Shadows: A relationship that helps you get in touch with a part of
yourself that has been kept in the dark.
These types of relationships help address patterns you might fail to
realize, such as attracting partners who have the same issues including fear of
commitment, different sexual orientation, different life goals, etc. However, the issue might not be your partners
fear of commitment but instead your own fear.
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Flip Flops: Relationships where you switch roles. How many of you have dated a man who was
overly in touch with his emotions or emotionally clingy and you-the strong woman with a certain level of detachment- felt like the
man in the relationship? I think you get the idea. Basically, there wasn’t equal power in the
previous life, so you have been forced (I say that with a grin) to do this
whole thing all over again, but this time you have switched places and are now in
the other partner’s shoes…sounds dreadful.
We
all have what are called "soul contracts" and "soul groups"…yes, you really did
make a contract with this person and that somewhat explains why you are in this
predicament. I’m sure a few of
you are asking, “How do I break the contract?!”
I know that’s what I would ask. I
suggest reading the book to find those answers.
I can’t give it all away. By the
way, you can’t kick them out of your soul group. If I figure that one out, I promise you’ll be
the first to know.
For
those of you who are just curious about the weight problem or the phobias…it’s
in there too. In order to have healthy
relationships and healthy experiences, we have to be at peace with ourselves,
set our intention and invite change.
I
look forward to hearing your thoughts!
Peace
& Happiness,
Diosa
Readings
P.S.
The information and advice given on this
blog is not a substitute for professional advice, self-help or assistance
programs, or any other professional treatment that you would normally receive
from a licensed professional such as a lawyer, doctor, psychiatrist, accountant
or financial advisor.
