The 411 On Timing: How To Interpret It, When and Why It Is Important To The Outcome
I'm just as guilty as the rest of you when it comes to timing. My constant question when reading myself or when asking a psychic question from my mentor is "WHEN?". "When will I get the call?", "When will the outcome desired occur?" and "When will I reach my goal?" are all common questions in our careers, love lives and in our day to day lives.
Once a spiritualist provides a timeframe for you, "Why does the timing of the outcome appear to change?", one might ask. There are many simple and complicated answers to this question, upon which I will elaborate during today's blog. First of all, receiving a reading from a spiritualist is a combining or joining, if you will, of energies between two people. Electromagnetically speaking, any combination of two or more things equals what? A changed outcome of what the matter was initially, prior to the combination of other matter(s).
When you receive a reading from a psychic, you are changing your energy by opening yourself and trusting your spiritual advisor to "tap" in to your energy source, or what I like to call "the aura." The energy that the psychic or spiritual advisor returns to you "changes" the way you view the energy of the situation at hand, whether it be your love life, career or a financial goal, because after all, you are calling for "advice" about the future.
For instance, if you have a pot of stew on your stove at home, and you ask assistance from a chef to help you with your "creation," he or she may advise that you add some basil, or that you not add any thyme. You may have started out with the idea or concept of chicken noodle soup, but you may end up with chicken Thai noodle with lemongrass. If the chef asks you to wait thirty minutes before adding your mushrooms, but you decide to go ahead and add them in the beginning, what happens? You have a soup that's otherwise good, but has overcooked and soggy mushrooms.
This is what happens in your relationships when you ask for a timeframe and a general clairvoyant guide on how to best proceed, but you do just the opposite of what the energy worker or spiritualist recommends, or even when you do exactly as the spiritualist recommends without listening to your own instincts regarding timing. Energy is energy, and when you think upon it, it changes.
For example, a customer called me a good while ago asking when a guy was going to call her to discuss coming back into her life. My timing came up as "7.1.7.", the energy behind such timeframe being "moderate." For me, this timeframe could be interpreted as seven weeks on the 17th of the month. I advised the client (OK I pleaded with her) not to contact her loved one, because the timing of the outcome could change if she did. She became afraid of waiting the entire seven weeks: she was afraid he'd see other women, or would assume she wasn't interested. So what did she do? She contacted him in less than week after she and I spoke. He didn't reply. "So what was different in the timeframe?", you ask. EVERYTHING.
It would have been one thing had my sweet, but terrified client called once and then let that be that. But then her fears got the worst of her. When he didn't respond in two days, she called him again, this time leaving a very desperate message on his voicemail. He didn't respond. Two weeks thereafter, she calls him once more, and leaves a tearful voicemail, to which he did not respond. "What next?", you ask. She gives up, writes him a "Dear John" letter, explaining how hurt she was that he had decided to give up on the relationship, and her timeframe was even worsened for the outcome. "She may not have heard from him anyway!", many of you might say, right? Think again. Less than 10 days after this, he responds to her, in a handwritten letter, signed, sealed and post delivered. Here is what it said:
Dear Amelia (name changed for privacy):
As I stated to you before we took time off from our relationship, I needed some space to consider whether or not I was ready to move our relationship to the next level. Despite the fact that I love you very much, I asked for this space because something I wasn't able to pinpoint, just a feeling I had, told me that you weren't stable.
I tried to avoid the feeling, but no matter how hard I tried, I simply couldn't push past it, so I asked for a break. I figured that if I was wrong about my feelings, I'd miss you and when I was done from my break, we could resume, and there would be no issues; I'd then realize that I was wrong about my senses. I also thought that if I was wrong about my feelings, I'd definitely figure it out as well, once I got some time to myself to think about why I felt this way.
It is obvious to me that I felt this way for a reason, since no less than two weeks into my unplanned vacation, you were leaving tearful messages, and then a good-bye letter was written, while I was visiting my mother in Ireland. I did not have access to email when in Ireland, nor was I able to retrieve my cell phone messages during this time.
However, you have shown me that your pain from other relationships, and your lack of trust in me as a man, is a bit more than I can handle. I am glad I learned this about you during our "break." I think it's best that we not resume things. Perhaps you could take some time out to heal from the pain of your past breakup, until you trust me (and men in general) a bit more. I am going to take some more time to think about this. Don't call me. I will call you.
I'll miss you,
Reggie (name changed for privacy).
What you hear in your readings dictates what you'll think about regarding the matter(s) at hand. What you think dictates what you will do. What you do (your actions) dictate the manifested outcome of YOUR FUTURE. When you ask for a timeframe, even KNOWING this timeframe could make the outcome of it shorter or longer. Why? Because your life is like a puzzle. All of the pieces are floating around energetically, waiting for you to piece it all in place the way YOU want it. If you know (because an advisor told you) when the next piece is going to float towards, you, what happens? Then you do not move yourself over in the direction of the piece, to place it in it's designated spot on your own. "Why is that such a big deal, if the timing is going to happen anyway?", one might ask. Because when you call an advisor, a path (ONE path) is shown. It involves you getting up and manifesting and creating the energy of a certain thing to happen for you. Alternatively, it even may involve you walking AWAY from the energy so that someone or something can walk towards YOU.
Why does this matter in your outcome? Because if you know the outcome of the path, you don't do all of the things you would have normally done, if your advisor had not unintentionally taken the power out of your hands by providing the timing of the outcome FOR YOU. This is not something we as advisors plan to do (take the power from you by giving you the outcome), it's just the nature of the way the psychic readings system is set up. You don't KNOW what to ask us, or how to ask us things or how to empower yourself with your questions, in order to keep the power of your future in your own hands. The entire psychic web is set up to make you think that THE PSYCHIC holds the key to your destiny, when this couldn't be further from the truth!
Questions about timing are not very empowering, since they cause you to want to either 1) do nothing to manifest your own outcome, but rather just "wait" patiently on the timeframe to occur. This can be especially destructive to career readings when I tell a client they will get a job in X amount of days, weeks or months, and then they do very little to get the job with their own free will. Alternatively, 2) it can cause one to do TOO MUCH if one knows the timing. Consider if I tell you a guy won't be back in touch for a year, and you become frantic, hurt, and disappointed. So you think, "Before he is allowed to slip out of my grasp even further, I'd best get on the ball and CALL HIM MYSELF." Taking that path too much into your own hands by dwelling on a person causes you to not live in the present, which can make your soulmate feel that you're taking his independence and his power of choice away from him. This could actually push him away from you, causing the timeframe to be even further out into the future.
I am going to share with everyone here the best ways to word your timeframe questions:
1) When will a new business opportunity head in my direction if I continue working as hard as I am right now to find them? This is a good way to ask because this lets the psychic know you are actively pursuing your future and not wanting a "get-out-of-life-free" card. Also, it helps us validate what we already see in your path. If you tell us you are working hard towards it, and we visualize that you are handing out resumes daily, returning phone calls, going to interviews, etc., then we can validate that we are "on" when reading you. It helps us know we are picking up on your energy accurately. Also, honesty is very important to an outcome. If you tell us this, but we can sense you aren't working hard on it at all, and if we sense that working hard or harder is what it takes to get to the outcome, we can say, "I don't see you doing very much right now. Here is what you need to do to find this job. Here is where to look, here is who to watch for, here is who I think could be open to hiring you." We can steer you TOWARDS that desired outcome and help you receive it more easily.
2) Could I expect the job opportunity to come to me without much searching, or do I need to expand my search and work even harder to manifest this job? This is a good way to ask things, because we can tell you exactly what we are seeing and what the path would be if you did nothing, or if you handed out resumes more, of if you tried harder. For the very lucky few of you who get jobs by who you know, it could be very helpful, because if a job is coming your way anyway, then you could go on vacation for a week instead! Fun!
3) What could I be doing differently so that I'd have more leftover money this month to save and stash away for my vacation? When do you think I WILL actually be able to afford this vacation more comfortably? This is an excellent question because it allows me as the psychic to see where you stand currently and get a vivid picture of everything you need to do to get to that vacation and make it happen for you!
4) What am I doing correctly already in my business that is working to keep my regulars? If I continue doing this, will I retain the same amount of business or would I need to change it up a bit, and if so, when? This is another responsible way to manifest more money and business into your life by empowering yourself!
5) What does this business need to attract new investors, so that it can get off the ground? When do you foresee it getting off the ground if I follow that blueprint? This lets us know that you are indeed willing to listen to what Spirit has to say about what to do to get to your desired outcome. Your Higher Power will respectfully give you everything you need to follow your own energetic blueprint, and then the timeline will be more accurate!
6) How did my interview go, and when will I hear from the person for a second interview? This give you the timeframe AND let's you know how they are thinking of you, which can help you to either boost your confidence or do damage control, when you hear from the potential employer again!
7) Will I make it past the second interview and if yes, how will the next stage of the application process go? What could I do to improve the way I am interviewing so that I make sure I get this job? This is a great way to look at the overall process of getting the job, as opposed to just the final outcome. It can be very empowering because if you don't make it past the first or second interview, you could go ahead and grieve, eat that bucket of ice cream, and then get rared up and ready for the next interview. We can then discuss what you could do better and not waste time waiting on the pointless employer who didn't choose you. But if you DID make it past the first few stages, it helps to get another fresh look on how everyone in the company is viewing you so that you can know how to mesh better with them throughout the rest of the process. This greases the edges of the window so that you can smoothly transition into the company.
8) Why did I not connect very well to the man who interviewed me, and what can I do, if anything, to change his mind? When, if at all, will I hear from him? Again, this prevents you from wasting vital time by waiting on a company if they are uninterested in you if you did not qualify. Also, a detailed answer to this question could help you know whether or not he could be persuaded more by you, or whether you just need to let this job go and don't even wait on the call back from them.
9) I seem to be not getting along with my boss. What can I do to improve interactions with her so that I am not fired? If I cannot improve the interactions, when do you think she might considering letting me go? This has helped many of my clients correct tough situations and has prevented a potential job loss! It's very important that you are not a chicken shit. Please ask me these kinds of career related questions!
10) If I quit my current job, how long will it take for me to feel financially secure? What could I do to speed up that process? If you're really bold, go ahead and ask this. It's very another way to empower yourself by getting a good clairvoyant blueprint on how tough it would be to ease out of the job by quitting, or if finances would be too stringent, you'd know that you might need to stay and suck it up for a while, perhaps tucking money away under the mattress until you can safely get the hell out of dodge.
Here are some ways NOT to ask about timing:
1) When is my soulmate coming back into my life for good? (It's not good to ask in this manner, because most psychics only read out into the future about two years maximum. Your soulmate may have many lessons to learn, before he or she returns for good, if he or she returns at all. Asking in this manner causes your reader to assume you are not open to the option and the honesty she might have to impart to you if she senses your soulmate will not return at all. If you call for the truth, and you're ready to hear it if it's negative, ask, "Is my soulmate every going to come back at all?". And then, "If so, when he does return, will it be to stay?".
2) When is my soulmate going to call me again next? Now while there is nothing wrong with this question, please be advised that many psychics may not work well in the immediately timeframes. I, for one, am more accurate with the longer term timeframes. If I read into this and feel the soulmate will call in a shorter term timeframe, I will often say to you, "Here are the numbers I am sensing, but I do not work accurately within the energy of such shorter term timeframes. I may be inaccurate, therefore, these numbers are meant only to be written down; don't hold me to it."
3) When is my soulmate going to leave his or her partner? Focusing energetically on the lessons of someone else as opposed to your own, can cause much energetic blocks. I will give you the timeframe on this as easily as anyone, and while it's OK to ask this, keep in mind that it's unhealthy to focus on it too much or to live your life based upon the outcome of such a timeframe.
4) When am I going to hit the lotto? Well, aside from the fact that keen highly frowns upon lotto questions in general, dwelling on your pot of gold in the sky could prevent you from manifesting money in your life by working for it, and since timeframes change, it could block your energetic mojo and make you less lucky, too! Here is a more energetically constructive way to utilize this question: 1) What are the times of the year when I am most lucky in my lotto games or scratch off tickets? 2) What are my lucky numbers? Sorry to those of you whom this question offended, but many inquiring minds really wanted to know! :)
5) When am I going to have my baby? Pregnancy in general and the timing thereof, is relatively difficult for most psychics, because I'm reading timing on you AND baby. Your body could say to us: "At the end of the month! I want this baby out NOW!" The baby's energy, however, could say, "Ohh HELL no! I wanna be in here longer. It's cozy in here!!" Get my drift? The specific combination of two energies can confuse the reader if the person is umm..inhabiting your uterus. A better way to ask would be: 1) During what times of this month are hot spots for labor to occur? or 2) What windows of opportunity are coming up for you as being strong energy for labor? If I am reading LABOR as the outcome, you are more than likely to get a more accurate timeframe.
6) When did my soulmate cheat on me? We, as psychics, feel so appalled by this question, and so taken aback. The last time a client asked me this and I answered it, she threatened to off herself and I had to contact keen corporate. Please, don't ask questions to which you don't want to know the answer. If you are STRONG enough to handle this answer, go ahead. But please, if you even have to THINK about whether you're strong enough to handle this answer, don't risk it by asking. I don't want to have to emotionally pull out my spatula and scrape you off my blog screen. :)
HOW TO INTERPRET MY TIMEFRAMES:
Long energy: If I say to you that there is a "long energy" behind the numbers in your timeframe, it means: several months to years.
Moderate energy: If I say to you that there is a "moderate energy" behind the numbers in your timefame, it means: a few weeks to a few months.
Short energy: If I say to you that there is a "short energy" behind the numbers in your timeframe, it means: hours to days
Why are my timeframes so sketchy: Because energy changes constantly. I am reading your aura, which is electromagnetic energy. How you act and react changes energy. Remember, "every action has an equal and opposite reaction". Just by you knowing the future creates the reaction from the Universe to you, otherwise known as YOUR FUTURE. Also, since I don't use any specific tools to help me specify what the numbers mean, I can only receive clairvoyant numbers, and then FEEL the depth of the energy surrounding said numbers.