ONE STAR BLUES ---- When Our Guides Say "NO"
My knee-jerk reaction to a 'One Star" feedback is to instantly block the caller because I feel that if there is no connection with a caller, there is no reason to keep them in my customer base. However, immediately blocking a caller is not always the correct path to take; a lot depends upon the feedback received.
Case in point is a recent feedback that I received from a caller who's love married a roommate recently. This caller, a lovely gal by the way, was very disappointed with psychics in general and spoke of having 'no faith in these people' because numerous advisors gave her the same information. And this is reason for this blog post today.
Many times I have learned that my guides do not 'share' truths with me because there are certain experiences that Soul needs to have and ... speaking to a psychic advisor who is 'in tune' may affect the outcome of the experience. As an advisor, I need to trust what my guides give me (and I certainly do). But, sometimes, I am given information that is cloaked for purposes of non-interference.
We, each of us, sign on in life to have certain experiences, and no matter who we speak to, no matter what type of 'love spell' or prayers are said on behalf of a petition, we simply cannot change the outcome of a situation. I do not believe that it is our place to change 'what is'. Seeing someone who is the object of our deepest desires marry another can be a daunting experience. It hurts. However, it speaks to us in a hidden message that it may be time to reassess our desires, goals and outlook. Everything that happens to us in life has meaning and purpose, even the seemingly painful experiences.
Many years ago I lost my partner who died suddenly in a swimming accident. To say I was devastated barely scratches the surface. In retrospect, I see where my guides had been preparing me for the experience through dreamstate (and I am grateful that I had been keeping a dream diary). When things settled, I looked back to my dream journal and realized that all was exactly as it was supposed to be in concert with my life contract. My partner had lived as long as he was able to, had the experiences that he needed to have, and ... so did I.
I post this information in my blog today so that others who may have had experiences with what they perceive to be 'bad' calls from advisors, and ... heart tugging experiences, realize that when we look at our lives as progressing according to our planned contract, we can glean the good from each experience -- whether it is a love who marries someone else or a love who translates through the veil of physical existence before we are ready to accept it. Love only hurts when we allow it to hurt, and maybe ... just maybe ... the hurt that we feel will be processed as a learning experience to propel us forward along our path. That is my feel for it :)
No ... I did not 'block' the one-star caller. I accept her disappointment and hope to work with her again in the future, once she has been able to process the experience.
Sending many blessings to One and All ...
Bee
Dolphyn Wisdom of the Ancients