A real friend......
A real friend....
is there for you when you need them.......just as you should be when they may need you...
Suppports your latest diet or relationship and does not sabotage it....
does not spend all of the conversations or interactions talking about themselves....
is honest with you even if you do not care for what they have to say.
tells you when they think you may be making a mistake.
does not always need to be right.
may say things that you do not care to hear but may in fact be in your best interest even if you cannot see it at the time.
does not take things you have shared and throw them in your face.
will never tell you that they wish you were going through what they may be experiencing....
we all have our own path and lessons to go through, and we do so in the time that the universe has alloted for us. And regardless of how it LOOKS from the outside we all suffer deeply in this life, we have our times of good and times of bad, times when real friends are there for us and times when they are clearly NOT there for us.
A real friend is truly a gift...
Joan