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How to keep healthy boundaries in your relationships

Are you REALLY listening? .......................

To what you are being told when you get a reading? Or do you have selective HEARING?

I HATE when readers go on a blog and complain their clients but some times its deserved......

Do some clients ever actually HEAR what is being told to them?  Don't go quoting your notes as I KNOW what I told you and it appears to be QUITE different from what YOU appear to have taken that it is.......

I don't care for bad feedback but sometimes it may be deserved and I can accept that when that is the case as in not connecting but  I am NOT here to cater to your ego and if that is all you want then don't bother calling me, I cannot be bothered to deal with  egos when you do not hear what you WANT.......... I certainly will not always be right, I do not for one second presume that, nor should you depend on me totally, take what comes up and take what your own gut tells you and balance those, we are SELF-determined, NOT, PRE-determined.

Maybe that's why many readers block you??????

MAYBE THIS IS ALL ABOUT YOU????

Maybe YOU took sneaky actions behind the scenes that you forgot to mention when you called for you reading, but don't for a minute think that they will not show up in the cards and I will call you on them when I see them. I know when you have driven by their house, called and hung up, had your friends contact them on a dating web site or you posing as another person, or had a friend write damning comments about them on line.... and don't think the other person has not or will not figure that out. MANIPULATION will never get you where you want or WHO you may want, so know that and take your hands off the wheel.

If that is the type of behavior that you engage in, please know that you only attract to you the type of person YOU are, your life on the outside will reflect your inner life. If you lie, you will attract a liar, if you manipulate, then that is what YOU attract, that is the level you're vibrating on and that is what you will bring into your life, so go ahead and do what you want but know it will reflect in your life in some way, it always will. Your intention is critical, knowing that is powerful.....

 

Joan

 

Published Monday, July 23, 2007 6:13 PM by DruidsGlenTarot

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# re: Are you REALLY listening? ....................... @ Monday, July 23, 2007 4:02 PM

You have always been honest with me. Rosy? Nope. Ponies & rainbows? Quite the opposites. Pragmatic and realistic, and a good judge of character. You have often held a mirror up to me, and I have not always liked what I saw. Feedback goes both ways, right? Your reading gives us feedback, and then we give it back to you. Because your readings offer so much more than predictions, but are true reads of the situation and our character and role in it, what we are evaluating, through our feedback of you, is also ourselves. This might explain it a little bit better if we do not like what we hear...

Mariaelena69

# re: Are you REALLY listening? ....................... @ Monday, July 23, 2007 6:54 PM

Dear Joan:
You cannot win this battle I am afraid.  Some fail to realize that perhaps one day something might be true and the next day things can change.  They do not understand that the future is not in concrete and remains fluid, and that how they act has a bearing on the outcome.  You cannot let this weigh your heart down or make you angry.  Just give this to the Universe and make sure you do not carry the negativity with you.  Bless you and I wish you grace to carry you through.  Keep doing what you do so very well and keep giving us blogs that make us think.  Don't dwell on those who cannot appreciate what you are all about.
Rosie

Rosalea

# re: Are you REALLY listening? ....................... @ Monday, July 23, 2007 8:02 PM

Life is an interactional process and you cannot manipulate behind the scenes and not have that catch up with you and throw a wrench into the works. I don't know what was heard during that interaction, but I know what this person was told and it was not what they appear to have heard. They were told that the outcome WOULD be the same, just some wrenches and delays because of the other person involved. There is no weight on me about this, and no negativity, I wish them well, it appears they will need it.
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

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