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# re: Drama...... @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 5:43 AM

A very nice psychic lady did email me. I thought it seemed strange. She said that her and a few others were trying to reach out to a lady and that the lady or blogger was alienating herself. She tried to say her words were misconstrued. She seemed very concerned about how I viewed her comments, and I had no idea she was even the one who wrote the comments until she told me so herself. Then it appeared I was misunderstanding her words as well. I did send the blogger the name of the nice lady who emailed me. She thanked me and that was it. The blogger never told me any details, or rambled, like that psychic lady did who said she was so concerned.  I tried to tell her they should work things out. It was awkward for me. The comments in the blog seem insulting, and I suggested they apologize. It seems difficult to believe such nasty comments are out of caring and concern like that psychic lady kept telling me. I told her the comments were not nice and that people needed to loosen up a bit. We can't pretend that we know what is going on between those two, we don't. The blogger didn't try to drag me into anything but that other lady sure did. I would appreciate it if advisors would leave me out of their private affairs. I can't say I am taking anyones side I am not. On the other hand, those insults are pretty harsh.

beachbum

# re: Drama...... @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 5:47 AM

I am sorry  that happened to you and that was my main concern and cause for writing that blog as I felt not only would that be an uncomfortable situation but it should never have occured. No caller should be dragged into any situation, whether by the blogger or the blogee, you as a caller are calling and paying for guidance not to be a mediator.
Thank you for sharing your concerns, but this situation really did concern me and it being played out on the blogs is simply put, INNAPROPRIATE....
joan

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# re: Drama...... @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 6:02 AM

I never called either one of them. The psychic lady put up a blog requesting that I contact her.  She wrote some blog about I am not you or something like that. I wrote a comment in it as I like her blogs. I assumed she wanted to discuss her blog instead of someone else's blog. She seemed really nice, but it was strange. She would say one thing, and then it would appear she would say something else different instead. She was very concerned at how I viewed her insulting remarks. As I said I didn't know she was the one who wrote it until she told me so herself. No wonder that blogger is writing blogs. I suggested she apologize,and reach out to the blogger as 2 wrongs don't make a right. I thought things would be settled between the two. I told her she was a stubborn mule, and she defended herself by saying it was the blogger. You guys write a lot of great blogs. But to throw friendships away like yesterday's garbage is not very spiritual. I am sure they are both great people deep down. If you misunderstood something say so, and quit the bickering. Thank you for being so nice. I like your blogs. Keep up the great work.

beachbum

# re: Drama...... @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 6:07 AM

I think blogs are a great resource and they have given us all great food for thought on many levels. When the words are written down they can resonate on a certain level and you know instinctively whether they were written in anger or frustration as the words drip off the blog...It is unprofessional of any advisor to behave in the way they did and this blog was not directed at anyone in particular but to all bloggers that as an advisor we need to be held to a higher standard....
Joan

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# re: Drama...... @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 6:57 AM

I would like to take this opportunity to apologise to beachbum, I tried to clear up something that was being misrepresented and actually made matters worse. My mistake.

Thank you Joan for giving me the opportunity to do this.

Trinity Connection

# re: Drama...... @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 7:02 AM

Sweetie,
Why would you say you are sorry unless you are guilty of something? I do not think I am the one who is owed an apology here.

beachbum

# re: Drama...... @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 7:09 AM

This appears to be a big misunderstanding and like I said in my blog yesterday words written can be taken the wrong way. So lets get that dirty washing done and be done with it...:-)
joan

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# re: Drama...... @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 7:12 AM

You know my Dad used to say rather crudely "The more you stir S##t the worse it stinks" and I think that is the case with this issue.  We should all rise above this and let it go.  It is so convoluted now that nothing is going to make sense of it.  There is absolutely no reason that I can see for this incident to gather momentum unless someone wants it to and is gaining something from it.  Lets do us all a favor and not give it anymore energy.

Rosie

Rosalea

# re: Drama...... @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 7:24 AM

Blogs as I have wrote last week, can be used with ill intentitions. I see so many people trying to get a point across to certain people back and forth. They look rediculous. You can see as clear as day what is going on, even if your trying to be all professional about it.,
There is nothing professional about (Drama)

If your upset about something an issue,a person, blog about it with an intent of creating something enlightening for people. Take the underlying meanings and turn it around.
We could pick people and things apart all day and blog about what she said, or who meant what, or I stand up for everything, and I will not be quiet. ((But)) when all is said and done at the end of the day, who cares.
Like I said blogs are for readers and clients to learn and heal and grow. No one here is exempt from this process, no matter how long you have been doing it. Just the flames get more intense as you go through.

Thanks Joan

GIFTED11

# re: Drama...... @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 7:32 AM

One more thing :) It is always the same names that show up under blogs that have some chaos or drams...Why is that? There is always a delete button or you can shut off your comments if not wanting to correspond. I do when I am just writing and not looking for dialogue. Sometimes we like interaction and sometimes it is nice just to share our deepest inspirations. Depends how spirit shares. Use your blogs for your highest good. Just a thought.

GIFTED11

# re: Drama...... @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 7:33 AM

There was no ill intention behind this blog ( and I am not accusing anyone of accusing me of having ill intention here).
I just did not want to see callers involved in drama where they should not be dragged into uncomfortable situations and or situations between readers, I felt it was wrong and addressed it, that was my only intention, not to stir any pot just to say what I felt was not right here.
joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: Drama...... @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 8:14 AM

And I reckon if you are stabbing people in the back you KNOW you are doing it, and you cannot set higher standards for others than you exhibit yourself.
Private emails are just that and posting them either in a blog or forum is just simply juvenile behavior.
There are a lot of people blogging here that IF I was looking to call a reader, I would be totally put off by the juvenile,negativity and anger exuding from their blogs.
Someone had to say it.......
joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: Drama...... @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 8:21 AM

Rosie has a great blog up about bringing us back to ourselves and what our real purpose is and what we could look at: "Shifting" That blog felt really good and really made you stop in your tracks to realign once again.

Thought I would share that here :)

GIFTED11

# re: Drama...... @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 8:27 AM

I read that blog and loved it, my son has a fascination with the Mayan calender although I do admit that as a parent that scares me, I hope its a shift that takes place, and that takes over but the world does not end, ( me and my silly fears ) Just like our silly fears about the millenium :-)
joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: Drama...... @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 8:35 AM

Dear Joan:

Do not fear for we all are going to raise each other up and carry each other forward.  Those who cannot align with the new energy will return to the creator until they can align. I am feeling the changes and I know many others are.  I just want to thank you both for sharing with me today.

Rosie

Rosalea

# re: Drama...... @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 8:50 AM

Ladies
If I may interrupt for a moment. It is nice to see you all supporting each other in such a nice way. It would be nice if the other two could give each other the same support. You all write such great blogs. Your wisdom shows.
Cheers

beachbum

# re: Drama...... @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 9:09 AM

If one is pushed to do something, it is likely to push one the other way. So let's drop asking people who may not be ready to deal with a situation or person they may not be ready to...People will *DEAL* in their own time and way...
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: Drama...... @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 4:11 PM

Joan
You do a great blog. Keep up the good work.

beachbum

# re: Drama...... @ Tuesday, May 13, 2008 6:04 PM

Thank you for the compliment. I am sure that all of us has a different idea of what a blog should be and how people should write or not write their blog, but the thing is we are all different and express ourselves in different ways...that should not be viewed as negative but in fact as a very positive thing that we can learn from each other... :-)
joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: Drama...... @ Wednesday, May 14, 2008 5:49 AM

Now, is it just me or is anyone else tired of being beaten over the head with the same post over and over? I know i am...
joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: Drama...... @ Thursday, May 15, 2008 3:29 PM

Joan and all....I have found it interesting and sad to observe. Yet I read it....I know it is human nature sometimes to behave or be interested in this sort of thing. The blogs really are meant as an opportunity to express - if an advisor so chooses they can edit or not allow. Everything happens for a reason. It is not inapropriate that this has happened. I feel it is a good filtering process. I also believe that the blocking is a peculuar thing - I have had advisors block me for mistaken ratings....oh well. If working in their highest good they would see feel and know the truth. But the human part of us goes to fear and loss. I found it minorly traumatizing, ok, I got over it, I have found honest accurate people here who work at a very high frequency and others who are still in serious learning mode, it is ok either way. Those that need to come to where they are supposed to. Our job as being human is simply put to fulfill our contracts and to do what we can to make this world a better place. Everything is relevent and nothing is relevent. Love is our soul purpose - period
We all just need to do the best we can at being us and move ahead. There are real issues in the world that we can contribute to. Partly my reason for commenting here, if you can change your emotional state for a moment and go out of your way to do something wonderful for someone - just because and do that everyday - even if it is just a simple how are you and take 5 minutes to care, that is something. We really must try as a race to be better. Thanks so much joan for your info - I am certain anyone who reads this has the same take, it has been amusing and embarassing and enlightening.

shars peaceful deliverance

# re: Drama...... @ Friday, May 16, 2008 5:48 AM

I do not block a lot in fact I may only have a few on my blocked list from over many years of reading on keen. I find I gain more when I get a call back from the caller to say that whatever it was occured.....not to mention the caller getting something back in seeing that even if they did not hear what they wanted to hear or they saw that what they did not believe would occur did in fact turn out that way... there is much to be gained in isight like that for both parties...
Blocking may be a knee jerk reaction, much like the pre-emptive strike that some readers have on their page that they only accept repeat 5 star callers...because they are in fear of negative feedback, I personally may not like it but, it's the other persons perception of our interaction which may not be mine...but reading for others opens us up for the opinions of others...
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

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