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For Gawds sakes........

LET IT GO......

I have never seen so much negativity in the one place, she did this to me, he did that to me, we were friends..... blah, blah BLAH. We are ALL wounded in some ways by thoughtless people, I do not believe that all wounds inflicted are INTENTIONAL, and hanging on to old wounds only puts salt into it sometimes so LET IT GO....

If I took the time to talk about all the lousy readings I got on here, all the money I spent on bad readings it would take a novel.

I know I was a difficult client, but quite frankly at this point in my life I have used what I went through to make ME a better reader. I know that at times I may have felt let down and betrayed by readers who took my money and complained about my calls, but you did not see that in writing on here or anywhere else....

I did not leave bad feedback, for ANY call I made no matter how lousy it was, no matter what STUPID advice I got, no matter that the phone call I waited over 18 months NEVER came..... I COPPED on and made changes in my life, chose not to give my power to anyone else, reader, lover, friend, and now I am VERY selective about who I call IF I call and believe you me, it's NOT often....

I did not name NAMES, I did not use the forum or the blogs to wash my dirty laundry and I do not believe it is there for that purpose.....

So GROW up the lot of you....this is getting old, this is not a complaints department, this is supposed to be BLOGS, sharing things of interest, stories, sharing and all this negativity is getting old....I share this, not to be rude, or disrespectful and I hope no one takes it that way, sorry if you do...

You all may not agree, frankly that is your right.... I read these blogs to learn not hear complaints

Joan

Published Saturday, October 13, 2007 11:31 PM by DruidsGlenTarot

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# re: For Gawds sakes........ @ Saturday, October 13, 2007 8:42 PM

Agree completely!

nova52799

# re: For Gawds sakes........ @ Saturday, October 13, 2007 8:58 PM

I suppose we all have to have an awl rant once in a while, and maybe saturn is up my a** at the moment.....but I felt this had to be said, so when saturn leaves tommorow I might make nice again but not tonight :-)
joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: For Gawds sakes........ @ Saturday, October 13, 2007 9:11 PM

In a way, the blogs have kind of ruined keen for me.  Now I know how some readers ~really~ feel about their customers.

nova52799

# re: For Gawds sakes........ @ Saturday, October 13, 2007 9:16 PM

So maybe that is a good thing, if it helps you make discerning decisions and not waste your money?
I have always tried hard to see this from both sides to be honest, and know that in any bad feedback (even my own) there obviously was some issue with the reading that went badly between reader and client and readings are a delicate balance of energy between reader and client and while I would like to believe all people are fair, clients and readers, I have experienced quite the opposite...
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: For Gawds sakes........ @ Sunday, October 14, 2007 8:32 AM

I started reading Keen blogs in May on a day when Gifted11 was featured, I had been suicidal for several days. She wrote some things that made me realize my inner experience wasn't as uncharted or off course as I had come to believe and I decided to keep going. I made it my one constant spiritual practice to read the featured blogs each day after that. From this, I grew a lot over the summer months and it kept me in touch with the outside world while taking a serious time out.

With that said, after I started checking out all advisor blogs as opposed to just the featured blogs my energy dipped and I began feeling really negative. There is a lot of what could be called "self sorcery" and bad witchery going on on Keen blogs. I've been missing all the good vibes that used to be here. I've started staying away from the computer and away from Keen. But it's been dawning on me, that the Keen arena is like any arena...you will find people working in the light and the dark, and you will find the two in conflict.  As for customer comments (this isn't directed at you Joan), no offense to any advisor but I would say let it go!!! Don't give your power away, don't comment to the negativity. If you are choosing to work for Spirit through the avenue of Keen, knowing you will be rated by advisors and clients alike, then accept that not everyone is going to love you and focus on those that do.

It's good that you wrote this post Joan. I like coming to your page.

virginia

# re: For Gawds sakes........ @ Sunday, October 14, 2007 10:22 AM

Actually, you do have a point there.  I have a list a mile long now of readers I won't call because they have come to the blogs and bitched about a client or talked bad about another reader.

nova52799

# re: For Gawds sakes........ @ Sunday, October 14, 2007 11:58 AM

Dear Virginia and Joan:

I know it is hard to stay positive when negativity surrounds us but it is necessary.  Those of us who care about others are heavy of heart when we constantly are exposed to those who are self serving and use the blogs to broadcast their dissatisfaction. I just believe that God is the God of the dark and the light and we all have our place.  Virginia I hope you will peace in your heart and courage when you need it.  Keep up the good work Joan.
Rosie  

Rosalea

# re: For Gawds sakes........ @ Sunday, October 14, 2007 1:08 PM

Dear Joan,
Your voice speaks for many people here on Keen, advisors & clients alike. I see some blog authors and I actually cringe & scroll past their entry. I myself have shared some of my personal life experiences, but with the intent of inspiring others who may be where I once was. I also know, when others attack another it is because this person reflects something within the author's self that they need to address. We all have an opportunity to share & help eachother here on Keen, which is the only reason I am here in the first place. Readers of this blog get a very clear sense of who advisors are as a person. How they really are out in the world we all live in together.
Psychic or not, advisors are people and their blogs reflects their true colors. For me, I say walk the walk, don't just talk the talk.
Thanks for writing, I enjoy your blog!
Slainte
Dr Daragh

Light and Love

# re: For Gawds sakes........ @ Monday, October 15, 2007 8:20 AM

Yes, Thank you Rosie, God IS a God of light and dark and that's the understanding I am  coming to. Which ties in with what Dr. Daragh writes too... I'm realizing that Keen is a microcosim of the bigger world, and myself a microcosim as well...when I get angry at the negative energy I encounter here I do realize I must be angry at myself. And as an empath, I understand just about anyone on a feeling level so it's not that I don't empathize with how bad ratings and hostile clients can hurt and anger an advisor. I most certainly do and it's why I couldn't ever work on Keen. I have the utmost respect for those of you who labor here with love and in the air of service! Rosie, Dr. Daragh, Joan, Donna, Amy (and there are more of course)...you have all given me courage and inspiration. Thank you for keeping your sites REAL and positive! I truly mean it when I say I LOVE YOU! Thank you for sharing your gifts so freely. Blessings to you all today...Virginia

virginia

# re: For Gawds sakes........ @ Monday, October 15, 2007 8:41 AM

P.S.   what I mean when I say I couldn't work on Keen is that I am not thick-skinned and I can be quick to trigger at this stage in my path (fighting some old victim mentalities). I don't think I could do it under the current structure of customer ratings, etc. Just had to explain this, wanted to make sure I wasn't coming off as knocking Keen in any way. I'm grateful for Keen, believe me!!! xo

virginia

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