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Boundaries

How to keep healthy boundaries in your relationships

I do not normally look at.......
Personals.....
But one I saw caught my eye because it LOOKED more like a help wanted advertisement....and with high expectations no less.
A 45 year old man who in his advertisement says he is disabled is looking for a woman from 22- 47 ( can't have her too old ya know) who likes to cook, clean and sew and for companionship? POSSIBLY MORE?
Maybe that's after he sees how well you can cook, clean and sew? 
And she has to be UNDER a certain height AND weight......
And my first thought reading it was .....Obviously he cannot pay for a housekeeper here.....and is he FREAKIN SERIOUS????..
And it made me think............that the lists we have for the potential partners may in fact be preventing us from meeting them....
Let's keep it REAL folks.....
Dr Phil ( the peanut butter television doctor, you either love or hate him) says that you should be happy with 80% of what you want but there is no one who can meet all of the unrealistic requirements that someone may have of a potential mate....
Temper your expectations people and let's keep it real.....a list is good to have, however you should focus more on what you DO want as opposed to what you do NOT want.....

Joan


Published Wednesday, June 17, 2009 1:56 PM by DruidsGlenTarot

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