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How to keep healthy boundaries in your relationships

I don't need to

I don't need to .......

tell you what a wonderful reader I am, YOU decide if I am good or not...

I don't need to tell you to call me, YOU decide to call me or not....

I don't need to email you to tell you I am available, if you want me or need me, YOU will seek me out and find me.

I don't need to tell you my hours, availability, you want me, I will be here for you IF I can, as quickly as I can ( I do occasionally sign off this computer and participate in the outside world, and I take days off, I find it makes me a better reader ), email me and I will be there for you as soon  as I can.

I don't need to tell you all my troubles, I am here to hear and listen to yours, you are not here to listen to mine or read about mine :-)

I don't need to tell you or ask you to leave me feedback, YOU decide if you want to leave me feedback.....and if you don't like my reading I cannot tell you not to say so, it is your reaction to our interaction that you have every right to post.

I don't need to tell you that I can keep my advertising costs down by your feedback, If you want to find me or I have been good for you in the past, YOU will find me again...no matter where I am on the featured pages and I pretty much guarantee that it will NOT be on the first few pages.....

I keep my prices reasonable because I care and I am honored to have you choose me to call as your reader, I am human as you are and I will treat you with the respect you deserve.

I don't need everyone to agree with my opinions about everything, I can, will and do respect the opinions of others, I may even change my mind about things from reading the blogs of others as has happened frequently. I don't need to see eye to eye with everyone either, but we can all agree to disagree :-)

Here's to continued good blogging from all :-)

 

Joan

Published Tuesday, March 04, 2008 1:46 PM by DruidsGlenTarot

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# re: I don't need to @ Tuesday, March 04, 2008 12:21 PM

Joan, Many times WE are able to see many different ways about ourselves and our actions and reactions through what another may say.

Many times we can get in a very defensive state when something is said that we many not be open to at the time. Or that we may decide to look at the statement with JUDGEMENT that is in conflict.

Thanks my gal for nice food..





GIFTED11

# re: I don't need to @ Tuesday, March 04, 2008 1:48 PM

:)

Carmen miro

# re: I don't need to @ Tuesday, March 04, 2008 2:06 PM

I have learned so much about myself when it comes to my reactions to different situations with other, the closer the relationship the more emotive my response will be....strange when you can sit back and look at these things without emotion....
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: I don't need to @ Tuesday, March 04, 2008 5:49 PM

You go girl!

SisterOthelia

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