I have no problems with...........
feedback, good or bad. I never ask for it, even with callers who email me for 5 free minutes, use them, them ONLY and never call me again....But I would prefer if it was accurate even when negative....If I have only read on a situation once, a short reading (Less than ten minutes to me is a short reading) one should not infer it was more often.
But if I was being totally honest, I might not like bad feedback but I accept it's part of doing on line readings....
And while being honest, I must state clearly and for the record this is not an exact science and what we pick up may not necessarily happen in the precise manner or time frame that we predict and sometimes it may not happen at all..
Now when that occurs.....it may be necessary to look at what may have changed in the mean time to prevent these predictions occurring....
Did we stalk the object of our affection?
Did we call the house and hang up a million times?
Did we push the object of our affection for answers they may not be ready to give...
Was the reader inaccurate?
Did she read the energy wrong?
It's never quite black and white....
But do we automatically blame the reader before considering our own part even though we may be responsible for some of this?
We should not give all of our power to the reader, because it is not up to the reader to make sure that we restrain ourselves from that frantic energy, those frantic drive-by's and or that stalker and illegal type of behavior of possibly listening to their messages, breaking into their email etc.... let's face it, if you got caught, do you think the relationship could survive that type of betrayal? And it would have been YOUR own fault, and not that of the reader....
Truth and Accuracy in feedback means you have to be honest with yourself.....and that's a hard thing to do.....
Don't shoot the messenger.....he/she may have only been trying to help...
Joan
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