I refuse to....
answer certain questions when I read because I have certain beliefs that make those questions very uncomfortable for me to even attempt to look at.
I do not like to read on the timing of the ending of one relationship so that the person calling can *be* in a relationship with the person they are calling about. I do not believe that one should be wishing the end of one relationship so that you can have the relationship with the person. It just feels wrong to me. You do not care about what is going on so long as you get what you want? How selfish is that? Think about others and try to see things from their point of view, doing that once in a while has the ability to make you an more honorable person and maybe it might make you think about the *other* person as a human being who is still in love with the one you love, and still deserves to be treated with dignity and not just as your *rival* Remember, there well could be someone else making those same kind of call about you, When is he/she going to stop seeing her/him? One cannot wish bad luck on another without somehow, bringing it to your door eventually...
I will look at the relationship gladly but I cannot in good conscience read on the timing of it ending. What is going to happen WILL happen, WHEN it is supposed to happen, HOW it is supposed to happen and probably not before no matter how much we want it. Rant over....
Joan