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I would....
like to thank all the advisors who contacted me through email regarding the blog I wrote about my mother being taken to hospital. And the ones who had kind thoughtful words on that blog also. It seems that when you need it the most that some you would like a shoulder from are not there for you and yet they are the ones who expect the most from you whey they are needing an ear or shoulder....and yet I may have been the one who should not have expected reciprocation? There is a lesson here...but we are only human after all are we not?
 And the ones you expect nothing from come through with a kind word of support and those are the most valuable as you then see who is there for you when you need it....thank you so much. Very much appreciated....
She is still quite ill and they have not decided what course to follow regarding her kidney failure, I feel badly that I have not been able to speak to her directly as I call her daily to keep in touch and I miss our daily chats. I am praying for her speedy recovery as she has done enough praying for all of us that it is now our turn to do the same for her. Even being one of ten kids that woman has been there for me when I needed it and I so appreciate it....I am also glad that the five of us that are still in Ireland are there and taking turns spending time with her and I know she is in good hands....
Thank you again :-)
Much Appreciated
Joan

Published Wednesday, June 10, 2009 7:57 PM by DruidsGlenTarot

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# re: I would.... @ Wednesday, June 10, 2009 6:05 PM

My heart and prayers are with you Joan.  It is a difficult thing being away from your Mother when she is seriously ill.  

Keeping you in my prayers.

Rosie

Rosalea

# re: I would.... @ Wednesday, June 10, 2009 6:11 PM

thanks rosie :-)

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: I would.... @ Wednesday, June 10, 2009 6:35 PM

It's not just the kidney issues, mammy suffers from lupus which complicate things immensely.
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

# re: I would.... @ Thursday, June 11, 2009 2:41 PM

My prayers and light are with you

Ancestor of Light

# re: I would.... @ Thursday, June 11, 2009 3:13 PM

Thank you so very much, your kind words are very well appreciated, and while she is doing better, she is still quite ill and in the hospital suffering from kidney failure and a chest infection..I may head home soon to see her.
Joan

DruidsGlenTarot

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