If you want a.....
good friend in your life then BE a good friend.... One cannot and should not expect from others what you are unwilling to do or be for them....
Reciprocation is a most important part of friendships or relationships, and in most relationships or friendships there is usually one person taking more than the other at one time or another. In a good healthy relationship or friendship that will change as needs arise. But if it is always the same person giving and the same person taking that eventually will take a toll on the relationship and resentment can creep in.
If you value your friendship or relationship you should be willing to be the giver some of the time as opposed to the taker all of the time and should be able to expect that from them...those are the solid friendships and relationships that will stand the test of time..... as opposed to the flash in the pans that come and go as we learn to cut the takers in our lives free.....
Joan
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