Boundaries

Isn't it great......

Only this morning I have my bank account being protected by kind people who only needed my details in order to help me take care of my security issue. And I do not have to do a thing :-) How nice of them, how thoughtful :-) But wait......I do not have a bank account with that bank?

I am getting money from Lagos, Nigeria. Singapore, and the U.K and that's just this morning, who KNEW I had so many non relatives who wanted to give me so much money???

And only this morning, three readers emailed me telling me they had *Information* specifically for me and all I had to do was call them, now nice of them is that???

A dating site I was on YEARS ago sent me 15 new matches even though I have not been a member for years, how many other people do they falsely advertise as members who have not signed on for a long time??

People on dating sites may not be whom they advertise themselves to be, so be aware and be careful to check people out BEFORE you meet them. Many on line are not only not being truthful, but may have *issues* that could prevent them from becoming involved ( as in married, or emotionally unavailable, or even have mental health issues they hide well on line ) SO check out any prospective dates BEFORE you meet them......have a back up plan, take your own car, and have a partner ready to save you in case you do not feel comfortable with the person and need to leave quickly...

And people you barely know seem to want to move faster in friendships or relationships than you may be ready to,  And all usually goes pretty well until God forbid you have to refuse to give anymore of yourself because you are drained and you begin to see that they have NO respect for YOUR boundaries.  You cannot send them money, you cannot give them as much of your time as they want, or the alarm bells are going off BIG TIME.  Then the REAL person comes out and lashes out at you .....You GOTTA be kidding me!!

So my best advice guys is...... buyer ( or non buyer BEWARE) people who insinuate themselves into your life MAKE THEM prove themselves to you, and if you do not feel comfortable about someone or something then do NOT proceed.......
Your gut NEVER lies......
Oh and let's not forget the test the reader calls, do yourself a favor, it will save you time and money, be honest with the reader, it will make for a better call all around.... I am here to help and I will do my best to do so but if you are anxious, upset, overly emotional, and or dishonest, I may not be able to read the situation correctly.... and I really DO want to do that for you when you call me... Joan

Published Sunday, January 30, 2011 7:31 PM by DruidsGlenTarot